• moriquende@lemmy.world
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        What’s wrong with this question? Many non-straight people talk about a specific moment when they realized it fully.

        • Chetzemoka@startrek.website
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          Too many straight people use this as the third sentence in a conversation with someone they just met though. Like, a formative moment in my psychological development is not something I’m accustomed to discussing with random strangers. It’s different when it comes up in conversations with friends.

          Add to that the weight of the oppressive sociocultural context that required me to have a developmental moment of revelation in the first place, instead of just, you know, being able to be whatever I am without having to wade though a pile of fear, guilt, and shame to get there. Yeah… it shouldn’t be a casual question.

  • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
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    Next person who tells me “you can make it!” on my afternoon stroll around the neighborhood, because I’m young and use mobility aids, is getting a whack from said mobility aids. I’m not your inspiration porn.

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      1 year ago

      Dude I’m 46 and run semi regularly. Every time someone on their driveway says something I want to jog up smack them and keep running.

      • whereisk@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Sorry, “every time”?

        I find that so odd, like how often does it happen, and what do people say?

      • jdf038@mander.xyz
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        Lmao at my last race a random teenager was all like “FINISH STRONG” as I was slowing down happy it was nearly over. Don’t say that to folks high on adrenaline and wondering why they signed up for this please.

  • Emerald@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Image Transcription: Twitter Post


    Nikita Redkar, @nikitadumptruck

    Commenting “love is love” and “that’s so inspiring!” on straight people’s engagement posts