• MakingWork
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    16 hours ago

    Yeah! I like my fake validation and fake likes from anonymous friends over here on lemmy. Fake friends are overrated.

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      16 hours ago

      the secret is i don’t think anyone on lemmy is my friend. i find everyone here frustrating and annoying! the system works!

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          14 hours ago

          Damn,… Ruffalo looks young in this picture… then I realize, he was and we all got fucking old. This was 13 years ago!!!

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            13 hours ago

            Yep! Wait until you have kids that are older than your co-workers.

            Source: My kids are older than many of my co-workers. It sucks.

            The only way to fight it is to stay fit as fuck. Oh and retire early like I did. Takes some of the pain out of getting older!

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              13 hours ago

              Exactly my plan my friend! Why bother grinding if you can’t afford anything? Better grind less and live more.

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                Agreed. I basically took early retirement–I’m 55.

                My pension is small since I bailed early, but I have zero debt, and very few bills, so I get by just fine. My kids are grown. My house and cars are paid off. Property taxes here are very low.

                Sure, I won’t be traveling the world, but the park next to my house is beautiful, and I can see the mountains from my front porch. All is good.

                Good luck to ya, mate!

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                  Hell yeah, that sounds like the way to do it. I’m much the same way, being a decade younger and having a kid that will be 18 in a decade. If you are able, why not make your own home into your favorite place to be?

                  I don’t have mountains to look at but I built a koi pond in the back yard. There are a lot of birds in the trees out there, plus we have a bunch of other pets of our own. Just chilling and observing natural beauty and being in that moment can be so nice.

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                    10 hours ago

                    You’re on your way brother. The children being grown when you get to the decade that you retire is the big game changer I think. I love my kids, and I actually thought about having more a few years ago, but financially just wasn’t something I could wing.

                    Plus I worked in an elementary school for my last few days of work, so they sorta all became my kids. And I still volunteer there, so it’s worked out for me.

                    Now, if my kids would have kids so I could at least have grandbabies, then hey! All the better! lol

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      13 hours ago

      There’s a pretty big difference between drinking mild poisons at a Nazi bar and a local bar. Zoomed out, sure, drinking alcohol at all can be considered pretty dubious, but the difference between the two scenarios remains.

      edit: replace what autocorrect put as “consistent” to “considered”