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NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 1 day ago

Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

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Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 1 day ago
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  • TerranFenrir
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    That definitely is the case with me (say in around 70% of cases?).

    I think in my mind, people that are my type = attractive. I want to be attractive. Therefore, my ideal look = the body type I am attracted to. Thankfully, I have almost achieved my ideal “look” or whatever.

    So yeah, I do look like people I have sex with usually.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      That is exactly my line of thinking.

  • randomname@sh.itjust.works
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    yeah I would find someone like me decently attractive. but I still find myself repulsive when I look in the mirror lmao.

  • Semjaza@lemmynsfw.com
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    Nope, with same gender folk I find they usually have something striking or unusual in their appearance and I’m far too normal middle of the road looking to fit that.

  • Jerkface (any/all)
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    politics, values, and kinks are way more important than appearance

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      Yeah, but i asked especially if you or anyone looked like someone they would like to have sex with.

      So, do yo?

      (This is just a chill and funny question, pal. Just play along if you will)
  • CelloMike@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    My husband and I have been mistaken for brothers before so… Yeah

  • USSMojave@startrek.website
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    I’m an androgynous twink who is into bears. There is no overlap

    • weeeeum@lemmy.world
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      I’m a bear into androgynous twinks. There is also no overlap

  • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍@lemmy.world
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    No

    I have a type. I’m not that type.

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    I think I kinda did ten or fifteen years ago, but I’m a bear/dad now and I’m much more into rugged women than rugged men. My taste in men runs twink-ish, usually.

    My wife has aged similarly though, which very much works for me.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      That’s fair, My taste in men also leans more towards twinks, and currently I look kind of twink-y. But maybe if I keep gaining weight and muscle, while I don’t think I’ll end up looking “bad”, maybe I’ll stop being my type.

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.social
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    18 hours ago

    I would totally fuck me.

  • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world
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    Yes lol

  • grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world
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    No, I like both men and women with dark hair/eyes/complexion and I look the complete opposite. I definitely have a type. Oddly, my brother, though straight, has the same preferences in women and he and I look alike.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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    not anymore, my wife made me get a haircut

    on the plus side, I now look more like someone she would have sex with

    • Una@europe.pub
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      Something tells me she knew what she was doing with making you get a haircut

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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        she did, which is why I listened when she told me it was time

  • Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    18 hours ago

    Yeah

  • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    Yeah. I’m definitely my type

  • PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz
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    ABSOLUTELY YES.

    • illi@lemm.ee
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      21 hours ago

      In that case… go fuck yourself!

      • PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz
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      • slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org
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        Respectfully

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      21 hours ago

      HELL YEAH!!

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