• baduhai@sopuli.xyz
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    27 minutes ago

    Eh, I wouldn’t turn myself down, but I’d certainly not go out of my way to hit on me. I’m not really my type.

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    5 hours ago

    That definitely is the case with me (say in around 70% of cases?).

    I think in my mind, people that are my type = attractive. I want to be attractive. Therefore, my ideal look = the body type I am attracted to. Thankfully, I have almost achieved my ideal “look” or whatever.

    So yeah, I do look like people I have sex with usually.

  • randomname@sh.itjust.works
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    5 hours ago

    yeah I would find someone like me decently attractive. but I still find myself repulsive when I look in the mirror lmao.

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    8 hours ago

    Nope, with same gender folk I find they usually have something striking or unusual in their appearance and I’m far too normal middle of the road looking to fit that.

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      7 hours ago

      Yeah, but i asked especially if you or anyone looked like someone they would like to have sex with.

      So, do yo?

      (This is just a chill and funny question, pal. Just play along if you will)
      • Jerkface (any/all)
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        3 hours ago

        Appearance is never a sufficient factor on its own, but in my own case appearance, I wouldn’t consider it a disqualifying factor. Though me a few years ago wouldn’t have to try as hard, for sure…

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          Good to know, thanks for play along! And you’re right, appearance is not everything. If someone is veey attractive and even my type, but is the biggest piece of shit ever, I’m just not interested at all.

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            2 hours ago

            Honestly, decent people are so rare, one cannot afford to be fussy about appearance. Fortunately, ethical compatibility is VERY attractive.

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    23 hours ago

    I think I kinda did ten or fifteen years ago, but I’m a bear/dad now and I’m much more into rugged women than rugged men. My taste in men runs twink-ish, usually.

    My wife has aged similarly though, which very much works for me.

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      22 hours ago

      That’s fair, My taste in men also leans more towards twinks, and currently I look kind of twink-y. But maybe if I keep gaining weight and muscle, while I don’t think I’ll end up looking “bad”, maybe I’ll stop being my type.

  • grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world
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    21 hours ago

    No, I like both men and women with dark hair/eyes/complexion and I look the complete opposite. I definitely have a type. Oddly, my brother, though straight, has the same preferences in women and he and I look alike.