Evkob (they/them)

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Cake day: June 5th, 2023

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  • Evkob (they/them)toWitches VS PatriarchyDammit
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    16 hours ago

    As far as commonly consumed things go, I’d say coffee is pretty up there in terms of witchy-ness.

    A plant only found in some regions of the world, from which we cultivate cherries to unleash the seed inside. This seed we then roast, grind up into a powder, and use a variety of techniques both ancient and modern to extract the essence of that powder to harness its caffeine properties. Whether I’m using a French press, a pour-over, or a fancy espresso machine, it always feels kind of like magic to me.










  • Evkob (they/them)to196@lemmy.blahaj.zonenot hard rule
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    7 days ago

    The idea that adopted kids aren’t “your own” or as real as biological kids is silly. My first partner was adopted, and she’s much closer to her family than I’ve ever been.

    Knowing the hoops adoptive parents have to jump through (at least where I live), I’d even say that the average adoptive parent is probably more of a parent than the average biological one. You really need to want kids to go through that process.


  • Thank you for saying this. We have more than enough reason to shit on these assholes for their actions and rhetoric; there’s absolutely no reason to use ableist language.

    In a similar vein, I’ve seen a lot of “weaponized” homophobic language on Lemmy (often in regards to Putin and Trump). Like you say, the only people who get hurt by this are the random queer people who read these comments.


  • The absence of a regulatory body for English is honestly probably one of my favourite features of the language. I’m a native French speaker, and while I can speak standard French, my dialect diverges substantially from what’s prescribed by l’Académie française (France) or the OQLF (Québec). There’s this sort of hierarchy in French where France (especially Parisian) French is seen as superior, and all other varieties, from Canadian to African to Caribbean, are seen as various degrees of inferior.

    I don’t feel that as much with English, and I think it’s in part because there isn’t an institution trying to define “proper” English. Despite it being my second language, I often feel more confident speaking to native English speakers from other regions than I do to other native French speakers.






  • This one sentence on the article pretty much summarizes the problem:

    It’s not surprising these groups check out of politics, especially when there is mounting evidence that legislators favour higher status voters.

    The two main parties can barely pretend to give a fuck about the poors anymore, and the NDP has basically regressed to being equivalent of the Liberals a decade ago. The Federal Greens are a joke.

    I only vote because I’m queer and the Conservatives have a much more aggressive form of homophobia than the Libs.