(edit [NSFW] sry)

I’m a woman and I’ve never been to a strip club and never will, so whenever I’ve idly heard about lap dances I never thought much of it except for her titties in his face and the pointless sexual frustration and his waste of money

but now for the first time I’m thinking

ohmygod if he had a huge cock and she’s all teasing it through his jeans with her g-string-clad wet pussy that is kinda so hot and maybe that’s worth the money for him

Because I also know that the women are allowed to touch the men, but the men aren’t allowed to touch the women

which brings me back to the opinion of how stupid & pointless & frustrating & stupid the whole thing is

but my only question right now is:

Does she dry hump his erect cock?

  • DerisionConsulting
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    11 months ago

    I am gay, and I have never had an issue just finding a partner for sex whenever the want arose. Also, I have never been to a strip club but I have worked in a few factories, so I have second-hand knowledge.

    The guy doesn’t wear jeans. They wear thin-fabric pants and go commando, and the classiest wear underwear in a material like pleather, and they pre-lube themselves before going. So the stripper dry humps the guy so he can get off.
    or
    The guy has a wife/girlfriend who doesn’t quite do it for him, so he goes out to get horny before going home to have sex.

    Edit: Sounds like the guys that I heard talk about strip club were not the norm, and are considered creepy as fuck, even to other people at a strip club. I have no personal experience with them, and I assumed that they are basically semi-public rub & tugs where you drink.

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      11 months ago

      He got downvoted because what he actually described is more like the super creepy guy who gets kicked out of the strip club. I have never in my life met anyone who “prelubed” weird thin plasticy sex pants before they went to a strip club lol

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        11 months ago

        That specific guy had come into work a few times being bruised from having the shit kicked out of him, and he also had porn taped to the inside of his lunchbox. The only people I know who have told me they have been to a strip club have been in his general level of creepy, but Marv was probably the perviest guy I worked with who wasn’t convicted of something.

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      11 months ago

      Having been to my share of strip clubs, this is not what I’ve seen.

      Usually it is just drunk dudes that end up at a strip club after a night out with the boys. People are wearing whatever they were wearing at the bar, jeans are very common.

      Usually it is groups of dudes sitting around drinking and each dude will peel off occasionally for a lap dance or three.

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      11 months ago

      thin-fabric pants

      underwear in a material like pleather

      Enlightening! I will never be in this situation, but I’d be curious to browse some shopping links for educational purposes

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      11 months ago

      Why did someone downvote you? I like your comment. I upvoted it. Hey everybody come over here and upvote that comment up there.

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        11 months ago

        Like I said, I am going off of second-hand information. It sounds like strip clubs are far more tame than I was led to believe.