• arthurpizza@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    If a gift of money comes with requirements on how to spend that money, it’s not a gift.

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      1 year ago

      Are gift cards not gifts then?

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        Yes, gift cards are gift cards. Gift cards, however, are not money as you can’t spend them anywhere.

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          1 year ago

          Gift cards are gift cards.

          Yes, but that wasn’t the question. Gift cards are to gifts like butterflies are to butter.

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            You can buy anything you want with a gift card. Whatever you choose to buy, that’s your gift. But no matter what you do, you’re never gonna get butter out of a butterfly.

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              You can buy anything you want with a gift card.

              Only if that thing you want is sold by the shop the gift card is for. That’s the condition.

              The original point (above my comment) was that the presence of the condition makes it not a gift.

              I will literally buy you a $200 Roblox gift card if you can directly buy a Keychron Q6 with it.

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                By that logic a Lego set isn’t a gift because the gift giver stipulated that the money could only be spent on a Lego set

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                  1 year ago

                  the money

                  What money? There is only a Lego set in your example. A Lego set does not pretend to be money like a gift card does.

                  If you were to pick one thing to take with you to a desert island for 6 months I guarantee a Lego set would be higher on your list than money. This is because Lego itself has value, at least to those who enjoy using it. Money does not have any intrinsic value outside trade. It is a means to an end. A way to acquire something of actual value to you.

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      Maybe I don’t feel like enabling a total stranger? Maybe I want to make sure I’m helping a problem with food and clothes rather than making it worse? Call it whatever the fuck you want Imma keep doing it and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it

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        The best thing you can do is donate to food banks. Either with actual donations of food or money donations.

        It’s actually a good idea to give food banks money because they get no end of cookies but no fruit or vegetable.

        I volunteered a food bank occasionally and we have enough pasta to survive the apocalypse. And every week people bring us even more bloody pasta. We could probably give it people to build as a shelter for themselves and still have more than we knew what to do with.

        Also we have 40 bags of kale. Which I don’t think anyone wants to eat even if they are starving.

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          But if you just offer to buy them food, then people on the internet will complain at you denying them agency.

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              There’s people in this thread saying a gift card isn’t a gift because it has stipulations on how it can be spent. They’re not being super aggressive about it, but still. If you want to find that comment chain check my last post.

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              I mentioned it on a Discord server and got such responses as “Oh shut up. Let people have agency.” and “It’s just restricting more control from societies most vulnerable group.”