• ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    The other day my sister-in-law used the word “mansplaining”. My mother asked what that meant and I started to tell her before I even realized what I was doing.

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      1 year ago

      That’s not mansplaining, that’s just explaining. Mansplaining is when you explain stuff to a woman you wouldn’t explain if a man was in their place. I.e. you start explaining car stuff to a female mechanic.

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        1 year ago

        According to social media, mansplaining is any occurrence of a man explaining anything to anyone. Which makes sense I guess, I mean you can hear it in the name. But they fail to explain why we need to create gendered verbs. I thought gendered nouns (fireman etc) were already considered a problem.

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          1 year ago

          Yeah well, nobody uses “mansplaining” that way unless they are insane. It has a specific meaning - which is a very annoying thing to experience. So unless someone considers every information attained from a man as “annoying”, “explaining” works well for that.