I know this is weird, but someone whom I follow, I recently discovered had an OF.

Now I’m not knocking them for it. It’s just that everything they present to the public is the complete opposite of someone whom (purely in my opinion) would never do something like that.

I dunno it’s just something odd I wasn’t expecting.

*Edit: Fuck it. It’s Alice Winterhold. There. Are you happy now? Perhaps you’ll understand now…

  • Alpha71@lemmy.worldOP
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    17 hours ago

    I’m not against someone doing OF and i don’t care that this person does, it’s just that their online persona is that of someone who wouldn’t do that. Just gave me a tad of spiritual whiplash is all.

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      18 hours ago

      You care a lot my guy you made a whole post about it and are thinking about it a lot and engaging strangers in conversations about it just for an excuse to keep thinking about it. Someone who doesn’t care would be like “wow that’s crazy” then never bring it up or think about it again. Also you are confused why someone doing only fans is not just naked and fucking dildos in public all the time, they sometimes wear clothes and exist in society???

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        18 hours ago

        🙄 I have said that this is weird. I know it is weird. Just let me say this. For me this was like finding out Mother Theresa has an OF. That’s what I’m saying.

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          17 hours ago

          That lady liked torturing kids, they thankfully still don’t allow that shit online.

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            17 hours ago

            Just like the person I follow online, I am talking about the persona they project to the world.

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              17 hours ago

              I have a suspicion what we have here is my bro putting the lady on a pedestal, In both instances. So just curious did you subscribe to the of?

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                16 hours ago

                😂 No. No I did not subscribe. I’m too cheap to pay for for porn when so much of it is free. And no, there is no pedestal, just viewing someone from afar whom I thought would no be into that. You should understand since I showed you who I was talking about

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          There are spiritual people besides her there. And some neo/ pagan religions honor the sacred sex worker (that’s not the word used).

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      18 hours ago

      You learned a valuable lesson. Nobody is who they say they are online. Except me, I actually am a big tiddy teenage girl.

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      17 hours ago

      it’s just that their online persona

      This is the bit right here that is most important. Someone online isn’t required to represent everything that they are there. In fact, appealing to a specific audience usually means tailoring yourself to a persona that appeals to that audience and subtracts anything that would offend them, as you want to retain them.

      I imagine this is a big component of being a public figure or celebrity. You have a specific image you want to project to the world. Bill Cosby had a public image of the clean comedy (and eventually) father figure, while is private life included things that were very much different from that.

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        16 hours ago

        True enough. And I don’t care, like I said, just surprised. This person isn’t like Cosby (as far as i know😜)

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      18 hours ago

      spiritual whiplash

      Some kind of christian or tradwife influencer?

      Remember that religion is mostly grifting and the best grifters earnestly believe their patter.

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        17 hours ago

        No. ( I also find it curious that everyone thinks the person I am talking about is female.😂)

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          17 hours ago

          70% of OF performers are women - I’d wager that’s why people are assuming a female subject.