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Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year ago

How come nobody ever DMs me?

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How come nobody ever DMs me?

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Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year ago
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  • tko@tkohhh.social
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    1 year ago

    Clarification question: Why would you expect somebody to DM you?

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      Yeah hell, I don’t even read my inbox.

  • lyth@sh.itjust.works
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    you don’t have one of those DM_ME_(thing) usernames

    • caseyweederman
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      DM_Me_Your_DMs

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        That would be interesting here, but it would make a sociology dissertation (in a bad way) on Reddit.

        I think I behaved basically the same there and here, but the DMs I get here are all: the post we were discussing got removed, here’s the last thing I wanted to say. On Reddit, I got those, plus occasional death and doxxing threats, sometimes from a person who was pretending to have a civil conversation with me in a comments section at the same time they’re messaging me threats.

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    To be frank I never felt the need to DM anyone here or on Reddit, I could live without this feature altogether

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      I’ve found it useful in the rare case that I’ve posted some project and someone wants to use it and has a question or something after the main thread is locked. I’ve had a few people reach out just to thank me for solving their problem which is always nice.

  • RickyRigatoni@lemmy.ml
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    you make me sleepy

  • sim_@beehaw.org
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    How many people have you DMed?

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    Gimme a reason to do it?
    This aint OnlyFans.

  • ΛdΛm_𝒷@infosec.pubBanned
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    Removed by mod

  • Ziggurat@sh.itjust.works
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    Because you need to ask,

    Take an username like PM_Me_your_shit and you’d get some surprises :)

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    prolly your breath. or maybe youre clicking too hard… that mouse button doesnt require force.

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      A mouse is like a clitoris. Gentler is more-er

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    Shameless ;)

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