• 303 Posts
  • 5.45K Comments
Joined 1 year ago
cake
Cake day: July 11th, 2023

help-circle







  • I find I easily forgive myself if I immediately recognize the fuckup and have a plan started or in the works to prevent it happening again.

    Kind of a “fool me once: shame on this. fool me twice: shame on me” alto its infinitey recursive so I would simply start back at 1

    If I learn a lesson from it, its money in the experience bank and I trust myself to make it right and mitigate it as best as is possible

    It helps with inverse thinking cuz now you know one of the paths or constituents of failure in whatever the endeavor and you have the opportunity to get closer to success next time











  • Don’t you think the external conditions of his life need to be overhauled as well? Wasn’t he much happier when he was carefree hanging with those rich hippies and just shooting the shit?

    I feel like the obsession with building and maintaining the perfect nuclear family is sort of a big part of his problem. He’s trying to shoehorn and be shoehorned into a life that really isnt his where he’s unable to truly be authentic or slow down long enough to get some of that introspection. Ditto for his job. You become like the people you spend the most time with. His work seems like a huge chronic trigger also.




  • GoodTask is what Todoist should have been. Highly recommended, it feels like it was made for us.

    Its especially good with the views it has. You can go between a list of your day, week, month so you can see whats ahead of you instead of reacting to everything blindly on the day of which is killer. Its kinda cool with the week view, you can have it so it always shows you whats up in the 7 days (including today) thats ahead as opposed to just the calendar week which makes you a bit myopic sometimes especially if its on Monday.

    Also lets you show relative dates alongside the actual date so you know how many days ago something was or is from the current date which helps my temporal memory a ton