In this case, I’m referring to the notion that we all make minor sacrifices in our daily interactions in service of a “greater good” for everyone.
“Following the rules” would be a simplified version of what I’m talking about, I suppose. But also keeping an awareness/attitude about "How will my choices affect the people around me in this moment? “Common courtesy”, “situational awareness”, etc…
I don’t know that it’s a “new” phenomenon by any means, I just seem to have an increasing (subjective) awareness of it’s decline of late.
I was on the subway, standing, recently when an elderly man got on board. I’d guess he was in his 70s. Had a crutch under his arm. Had one or a few small bruises on his face. He looked frail. No one with a seat made any effort to offer him their seat. He stayed right near the doorway of the subway, and I thought “oh, maybe he’s just going one stop.” He wasn’t. He just didn’t expect anyone to vacate a seat for him.
I remember the subway before personal music players, and now ‘smartphones’ were ubiquitous. From what I can see, common courtesy has fallen sharply with the rise of ‘smartphones’ (and the concomitant “I’m walking around completely oblivious to my surroundings and focused on what’s on the 4 inch screen 4 inches from my face”)