This technically violates rule #5 but I feel like it’s a valuable information and discussion to have available.
Edit: meaning there are other communities this can be continued on that are more appropriate but I don’t want what’s already been said to be lost with the removal of this post. Someone feel free make a post at [email protected] or another appropriate community.
Locking as it’s not a question. Sorry you’re going through that OP but there are other communities to get support.