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  • Hey Sky, I remember you posting in the past. I’m sorry you’re still struggling with these issues. In line with most people here, I think you do look feminine but there’s a lack of confidence probably stemming from a not-great relationship with your appearance.

    I hope to add some new thoughts here. I have pretty similar hair to you. It can feel like a blessing and a curse, because it can look great but it’s a lot of effort (especially from an AMAB perspective on haircare). I’m gradually learning more and more and it’s one of the most gender-affirming things I have going for me. I think maybe if you can focus on liking a bit of your appearance more than you might start feeling a little better and more hopeful about your appearance overall. Here are some easier things you can try with your hair. It looks like you part your hair down the middle - try parting it on one side. Try a ‘messy bun’ with a ponytailer. Try some ‘half up’ big claw hairstyles. Feel free to let me know how it goes. Good luck, I’m rooting for you :)





  • streetfestivalOPtoCanadaPaying more for policing doesn’t stop or reduce crime
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    Policing is about protecting wealth and social hierarchy, not public safety or public interests. But no one who wants to invest more in policing will say this out loud, because they wouldn’t get votes. So, complete falsehoods about investing more in policing to reduce crime are presented instead, as you and the article point out













  • Agreed. They should include % of some cap/threshold because that’s what matters from a roster construction perspective ($ left for other players) and it’s more helpful for comparisons across time. That “up to $269 million” probably includes $50 million on the premise he makes all-NBA this year. That’s the case with Scottie Barnes’ new deal (225 or 275 mil) and they were in the same draft class