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Cake day: June 5th, 2023

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    • “Normies” as I associate people who use that word a lot to be pretentious.
    • “Lolcow” which has history of Kiwi Farm user using that word to describe someone and cyberbully as well as dox them.
    • “Chav” as I feel classist to still use that term but as someone that’s both working-class and lives in a rough area in UK, it hard to not describe some people as that term as christ… they are aggressive, homophobic and transphobic.


  • I feel torned about it. As someone that did experience doing breathplay from my abusive Ex which wasn’t consensual, it is scary how people who watches them forget that porn (especially more hardcore one) aren’t real and just wants to do without any further research of how you do it as safely you can. It’s beyond wreckless for those who don’t do it but still asked their partners to take part. Safety is key in BDSM.

    That being said, I do feel like the issue with porn is that the adult industry is really exploitive to adult star, women especially. It needs to more regulation for both the studio that produce it as well as the website especially that hosted those videos from shady porn makers on their website. Banning strangling in porn isn’t going to solve it, it’s a half-assed effort at best.


  • 1. Lack of granular privacy / profile control

    I mean, Lemmy is based on Reddit which you publicly discuss a topic. I’m not sure how having options to create a comment private benefits Lemmy at all unless you can give me a reason.

    2. Poor content discovery / lack of niche communities / limited diversity

    To be fair on Lemmy, it is still new in compassion to Reddit so there would be as fewer communities compared to Reddit. If you don’t mind being a moderator, you can always create a community which I can see some Lemmings would like to join.

    3. Fragmentation across instances / duplication of communities

    I won’t lie, it does confused me a bit as I tend to try at least find one that’s more active and post from there. Also, it runs by different moderators which some their decision you may not be fond of so at least you have the same topic of the community but on different instance.

    8. Over-representation of particular content types (US-news, memes, agenda posts) and low content-quality

    Read my opinion at point 2, think that pretty relevant. But yes, I agree there’s lot of US-Based news and lucky for me, there’s both an Lemmy instance and community for people in Britain (I’m born there) so it’s nice reading news from my own country beside how incompetent Keir Starmer is.

    The best if you want is following World News community or make one for whatever country you’re in and try advertised it on Lemmy (please don’t spam it on random threads, that won’t be cool.)


  • I’m getting Déjà vu as it reminds me of someone on Mastodon posting a graph of Mastodon’s daily users going down. Can’t remember if it OP of that post (Mastodon post, not this Lemmy one) or a news article that was like “Is this a downfall for Mastodon?”. Nope, it’s still around and I will argue, Mastodon is at it’s own lane which feels unfair it get compared to Twitter which feels like an Apple and Oranges compassion



  • I have low self-esteem and that’s from just people been shitty to me. I could go on but I don’t want to trauma dump (at least, try to prevent myself from doing it).

    That being said, I’m planning to get therapy, go to more social events if I have the energy to do so and maybe next year, try get back to swimming. I stopped around when I was in lockdown in 2020 and I forgot about it since.