• frostbiker
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    8 months ago

    I’m bisexual and I get why people keep adding letters, inconvenient as it may be to some.

    It’s easy to say “this is enough” when you already feel represented. You don’t need to use a longer acronym than you are comfortable with, but likewise you should not expect others to shorten their acronym for your convenience.

    Some gender and sexual minorities are neither lesbian, gay, bisexual nor trans, yet they want to feel seen: they have been hidden, ignored or ostracized for too long. They don’t want an umbrella like + or ‘queer’ to hide under. They are their own thing, so they want to have their own label to recognize themselves and to be recognized.

    Once gender and sexual minorities have been understood and accepted more broadly, people within them will organically become more accepting of umbrella terms. But today is not the day. Not yet. Today let’s continue to welcome more people until we are all here.

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      8 months ago

      The answer is to use ‘SOGIM’: Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Minorities

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        8 months ago

        It’s great that you have found a term you like. Other people may prefer a different one, and that’s also okay.

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          8 months ago

          Fine by me as long as I’m not expected to use them. I see nothing wrong with GSM (gender/sexual minority).

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      8 months ago

      Hello, Tumblr. By the time “we are all here”, the acronym will include the alphabet, numerals, and quite possibly other glyphs (if someone throws an emoji on there so help me god). Human sexuality is varied and diverse if you haven’t noticed. I am not learning an acronym long enough to singlehandedly win a game of Scrabble just so everyone can feel special. Not happening, sport, and most people would agree – which is why this will never catch on and Tumblrinas need to stop trying to force it to.

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        8 months ago

        Hello, fellow human.

        I am not learning an acronym long enough to singlehandedly win a game of Scrabble

        Nobody is forcing you to use any term you don’t like. You can use whatever term you want and other people can also choose whatever they prefer. If you find people choosing their own labels troublesome, imagine how you would feel if people started forcing you to call yourself something different.

        Also, being friendly on the internet costs nothing. Yes, even to people with other viewpoints.