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disregardable@lemmy.zip to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 8 days ago

What do you want out of someone you're on a first date with?

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What do you want out of someone you're on a first date with?

disregardable@lemmy.zip to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 8 days ago
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  • DFX4509B@lemmy.wtf
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    7 days ago

    If we’re compatible with each other, and also to just have fun.

  • Tony N@lemmy.ml
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    On a first date I’m looking for common interests, and gauging how easy the conversation flows. Do we feel natural together? Does the time go too fast and do I not want it to end? I want to establish a connection on a first date and leave with us both wanting more.

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      I read gauging as gagging. I was like hmm that’s like 4th base already?

  • Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world
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    To know they’re not a bigot of some kind.

    My bad for starting a fight.

    • MotoAsh@piefed.socialBanned
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      skavau is a clown

      • _druid@sh.itjust.works
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        Paradox of tolerance

        • MotoAsh@piefed.socialBanned
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          skavau is a clown

          • _druid@sh.itjust.works
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            I never stated any level of support for them, so I have no idea why you’re directing those comments at me.

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              skavau is a clown

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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        It’s not bigotry if your opinion is based on evidence.

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          skavau is a clown

  • lolo@sh.itjust.works
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    Genuine laughter. If we’re relaxed and laughing most of the time, I want to be around that person again :)

  • gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works
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    I want to see how they react when I put on my robe and wizard hat

    • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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      7 days ago

      School of magic? unless you were a grander wizard then expected.

  • IWW4@lemmy.zip
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    8 days ago

    just a good time.

  • Diddlydee@feddit.uk
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    Anal (want, not expect, right?)

    • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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      7 days ago

      I give oral first for obvious reasons buddy guy.

  • daggermoon@lemmy.world
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    First date is for vibe checks and making sure she’s not a fascist.

  • kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I want the Chaos Emeralddss of course!!

  • jet@hackertalks.com
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    7 days ago

    Vibe check

    See if there is a spark

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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    First date is to see if they can carry a conversation and hold their hooch.

    Second date is to see if they can cook.

    • Victor@lemmy.world
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      Second date is to see if they can cook.

      To make sure they’re on your level, right?

      Right?

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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        Obviously, since the second date is also where they see if I can cook.

        • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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          Now im imagining your 2nd date cook off competition with categories to win and judges to score it.

        • Victor@lemmy.world
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          🥰

  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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    I think the first date is exchanging dick pics and stats on grindr. Engagement is when we first hook up. Getting hitched is the 2nd hookup.

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