So, I saw a report from one of my users. They reported:

https://ponder.cat/post/1594852/1813842

For the reason:

Unreasonable fighting with everyone in every simple post

I think that’s ridiculous, so I talked with them about it. Posting private communications is frowned upon I guess, but long story short, they weren’t receptive. I’ve decided to ban the account.

IMO the general culture on Lemmy is that users are entitled to their free account and everyone needs to be careful and circumspect about limiting that entitlement in any way, but I don’t see it that way. I don’t think it’s a requirement for me to provide hosting space for anyone who wants to use my stuff as a jumping-off point for abuse of Lemmy’s systems, and isn’t apologetic or receptive when I talk with them about not doing that. The fact that it’s in service of harassing FlyingSquid in particular is just icing on the cake, since my perception is that people like to harass him apparently for no legitimate reason at all (with this as an example).

AITA?

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    I’ve seen them posting in communities and instances they have previously been banned from.

    Name one. Provide examples. Lots of admins talk to each other. So let’s see some proof of what you have seen.

    The vast, vast majority of my posting is to my own communities. But I’m totally fine with you showing some screen shots of where you have seen me posting to places I am banned from with–time stamps to show that they were posted AFTER any ban. PhiliptheBucket seems to have every timestamp of everything I am posting and even he is not accusing me of what you just have.

    So give me an example of where you have seen me posting to a banned instance and/or community AFTER I was banned.

    I’m almost certain they are ban evading with their alts.

    But you just said you’ve seen me posting in communities and on instances I’ve been banned from. Now you are saying “almost certain.”

    So which is it? Did you see me like you said above or are you “almost certain?”

    And if you are so sure of it it, did you report those to the admin? And do you have examples? Let’s have a look.

    I keep the same fucking username. So it would be pretty hard for me to post in communities that I’m banned from. Seems like the mods could spot it right away.

    If wanted to ban evade, wouldn’t it be easier to just come up with a random name and then post wherever I wanted?

    And again, guys. I am NOT the subject of OP’s original post. This is all off-topic. This thread is not about me. Let it go!

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        caught here in the act

        Nope. Read the entire thing. That’s a robotic ban that the the mod, auk, admitted was a ban that I would know nothing about. In fact, after reviewing, auk said: As I said under the other post, I do believe this evasion was entirely unintentional, for the reasons you outlined.

        And later the mod, auk, said of my participation: I’m not planning to set the bot up to notify dozens of users about their bans in a community they have never posted in and don’t care about. Notice it says “never posted in and don’t care about.”

        And the admin of that instance and other instances agreed that I couldn’t have known about the ban because it was robotic. Other users also agreed look at the subs modlog, users who HAVE NEVER POSTED THERE GET BANNED without their knowing: https://sh.itjust.works/post/27848698

        Which is why I didn’t get banned from that instance after admin review. Funny how you left out those details. Screenshot proof of convo:

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          Also caught cloning other users

          Wasn’t “caught” doing anything. I haven’t closed other users. Do you have proof of this?

          I use my own name across several instances. I haven’t cloned or copied anyone.

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              Still waiting on proof that I cloned or copied anyone’s username. You brought up, so show us the proof.

              This is a community about proof of accusations. So show us.

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            Already done, and I asked them to removed accounts that were cloned/parodying me as well. I wasn’t the one who cloned anyone or anything.

            Please provide proof to me, this audience, and the admins if you have any proof.

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            He has a few other alts as well, but it’s not exactly my day job to keep detailed notes. However, I am sick of his shit and that dude is a fucking cockroach.

            TBH, I don’t think it’s really against any rules to dup a username across instances as SMCF is actually on .world. However, this is being done with malice and should be addressed. UM must have been holding a grudge from when he was banned from .world.

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              He has a few other alts as well, but it’s not exactly my day job to keep detailed notes.

              As in alt names or instances? Because i have no alt names. If you don’t have proof, then don’t falsely accuse.

              Please show us the proof.

              TBH, I don’t think it’s really against any rules to dup a username across instances as SMCF is actually on .world.

              Then why bring it up?

              However, this is being done with malice

              You have no proof of this. Please show posts where I have malice.

              UM must have been holding a grudge from when he was banned from .world.

              No, YOU have been holding a grudge from that. Let it go. It was before the election. I didn’t vote for Harris. And she lost. But her loss wasn’t my fault. Get over it.

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                I told you to quit mumbling. I can’t hear a word you are saying.

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                  I told you to quit mumbling. I can’t hear a word you are saying.

                  I’ve reported you for false accusations. Funny how everytime I have a counterpoint, you ask me to quit mumbling. I’ve made myself quike clear.

                  Unless you have proof, don’t accuse.

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                    We don’t owe trolls shit.

                    (But it’s a simple username lookup, btw.)

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              Honestly, I think the issue is that it really is a job, and there isn’t anyone who’s really well-positioned to take charge of it.

              Any system which allows easy, anonymous account creation is going to be subject to some level of abuse. Any system which does that, and also is distributed among multiple instances with admins who don’t always see eye-to-eye on things, is going to be absolutely helpless in the face of even a very rudimentary attempt at abuse, and anyone who wants to will be able to run rings around the admins and just kind of run around doing whatever they want. Telling people “just block the obnoxious people on whatever new accounts they make when they get banned” obviously isn’t the answer, but it’s what people fall back on because it is the only thing that can be relied upon to work.

              I think Bluesky’s idea of federating out block lists (basically, as I understand it) is probably the most straightforward non-awful way. You don’t want to make every new user encounter every obnoxious person and learn, one by one, who they are and that they need to block them. That way lies madness.

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                federating out block lists

                I’m fine with that. In fact, I’d love you all to just block me rather than create new thread all the time trying to ban me from the fediverse–simply because you don’t like news articles that I post. lol

                Please, please, please work on that.

                As I have always said, block me and ignore me. But banning is just silencing disagreeing opinions.

                I have a right to say what I want. You have the right to ignore me. But I am allowed to be here.

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                  • Here’s me, at 9:04 on Feb 4, mentioning you: https://ponder.cat/post/1520414/1734558
                  • Also there is you, at 9:10, replying to me (which I didn’t see because I have that alt blocked): https://ponder.cat/post/1520414/1734616
                  • I’m not sure how much I can say without violating some kind of privacy line. But, at 9:38, you were interacting with my content from a little while before any of this had happened, from your sh.itjust.works account.
                  • Then, at 9:39, you switched to your vegantheoryclub account and the first thing you did was comment under a post I’d made a couple of hours prior: https://ponder.cat/comment/1734903

                  Not sure how much clearer I can make it. I would love to be able to block and move on, that’s what I did. You are committed to not respecting the block, taking actions from new alts which will send me notifications, and then lying in this strange fashion about it. I understand why you’re pretending that’s not what you did. But I’m happy to provide proof in the form of screenshots or anything else. Or, any admin can verify it.

                  You are allowed to be here, sure. Everyone is. You’re not allowed to violate the rules of the space. And, when someone’s sufficiently unrepentant about not respecting the rules of the space, they lose their right to be here. Your commitment to going beyond “saying what you want” and instead, among other things, starting to harass and irritate other users deliberately when they exercise their right to say what they want, is exactly what keeps losing you accounts. That’s the system protecting itself.

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                    I understand why you’re pretending that’s not what you did.

                    I’m not pretending anything. Dude, I have no way of knowing of how you block me or don’t block me or what names you have blocked or what instances you have blocked.

                    You have taken your “minor” annoyance and made it this huge thing like I am fucking stalking you which is false.

                    You have all the fucking stats on me and where I post and how I post, then you can fucking see how little you and I actually interact.

                    I alternate through my accounts on different instances regularly. Each instance has a different vibe. That’s the fucking fediverse. I’m sorry you don’t like that I can do that.

                    So for the love of whatever gods you like, please come up with a #wildcard script that will just block every instance of my name. I have no reason to follow you. But you post a LOT. So our paths will cross.

                    I have never harassed you. Stop saying that. Responding to a post that you made in a public forum is not harassing. You post in communities that i post it. That’s the fucking internet.

                    IF I WANTED TO BLOCK/BAN EVADE, I WOULD COME UP WITH A DIFFERENT USERNAME TO DO IT! Which have not done.

                    Which brings up another subject, so I have a request. Since you seem to know where and how I post and every fucking second of the day I am online, can you please please please, address all the people who say that I am multiple people, that I live in russia, that I post 24 hours a day, and can you inform Draconic [email protected] and [email protected] that I’m not the alts that they say I am? lol

                    Motherfuck, you all have gone batshit crazy over my name. You all have spent more time talking about me than the 10 seconds it would have taken to just fucking block me.

                    So use your little script program thingy, write some sort of wildcard name search script, put my name in it and boom! Every single instance of my username will be blocked even when I create a new one, and you can stop obsessing about me.

                    I’m not leaving Lemmy. I have just as much right as you do to be here. Even if I am on a 100 instances. Write your little wildcard name blocker and be done with it.

                    And again, I’m not the fucking point of your original post that this thread is about! This is all off-topic. lol

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                Shared block lists could be implemented into the clients as well, but it would take a bit to keep those from getting abused and wouldn’t scale over time too well.

                But yeah, this is a major issue with Lemmy and is probably the major reason I don’t think this platform can scale up to Reddit size. Once trolls take over, everyone will leave.

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              TBH, I don’t think it’s really against any rules to dup a username across instances as SMCF is actually on .world. However, this is being done with malice and should be addressed. UM must have been holding a grudge from when he was banned from .world.

              Yeah I agree, having multiple accounts with the same username is okay when your intention isn’t to cause malice. When one is doing it to impersonate/namesquat or just to troll and ban evade then it’s a problem. It’s part of why I have as many as I do. It makes it extremely difficult for people to impersonate me, except on the handful of excommunicated instances I never signed up to but those will be very clearly recognized as impersonation.

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                Yeah I agree, having multiple accounts with the same username is okay when your intention isn’t to cause malice.

                Ok, then why bring all the stuff up? And I’m not even the subject of this thread.

                When one is doing it to impersonate/namesquat or just to troll and ban evade then it’s a problem.

                Which I have never done.

                It’s part of why I have as many as I do.

                So you are jumping on this bandwagon attacking me, and you have multiple freakin usernames on multiple instances? Say wat bro?! You were just pointing out how terrible i was for being multiple instances!

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                  I frankly don’t believe you and I don’t think you believe that yourself. You’ve been caught in the act both for impersonation and ban evasion. You are not innocent here and if you were you should’ve appealed instead of making more accounts.

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                    You’ve been caught in the act both for impersonation and ban evasion.

                    Please provide proof. I have not impersonated anyone, nor have I been “caught in the act” of doing that. Please provide proof.

                    And please provide the ban evasion proof, because you last proof wasn’t, and I showed why the admins didn’t think it was either.

                    Also, I am not the subject of this PTB thread. I am not the user in the OP. So you all are going off-topic anyway.