• ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    To be honest I think having children when you have a family history of disability is the most selfish thing a human can do.

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      5 hours ago

      Family history of disability is not a necessary prerequisite of having a disabled child, though.

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        5 minutes ago

        They’re probably referring to having a child when it is genetically predisposed to abnormalities due to whatever genetics the parents have.

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        5 hours ago

        It’s not necessary but personally if I knew my family had a history of any disabilities I’d never have kids. I know there’s a base level of chance to begin with but being okay with a higher chance, especially if the disability is prevalent enough to be known about, is incredibly selfish.

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        5 hours ago

        And you tell your child when they’re suffering from a life long birth defect/disability that you knew there was decent a chance they would end up trapped like that.

        I’m sure that will help them feel better and the rest of their life coping will be so much easier!

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      5 hours ago

      Exactly this, you know the child will likely inherit and suffer but the parents want a kid so all that suffering the kid will be forced to endure and be trapped in a living hell… well that’s just fine!

      To a lesser extent I see having kids in a world like this as similarly selfish.