I can’t be the only one who has been on both sides of this, yeah?

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    28 days ago

    I’ve seen it before. They don’t mask some behaviors that you have learned to mask. It feels like they lack self awareness about it and it is off putting.

    But then I realize it’s probably how I sound like to normal people too.

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      28 days ago

      Without actually saying it in so many words, my therapist has indicated that I probably don’t seem as weird to “normal people” as I think I do.

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        27 days ago

        your therapist is just paid to say that

        /s if you need it

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      27 days ago

      I also wonder if they’ve deliberately dropped the mask because they feel comfortable with me (and I betrayed that by feeling like the little guy on the right)