Basically one in which you can’t be public about it due to whatever reasons - has to stay a secret. No need to go into detail if you don’t want to. I myself have been in this situation for ~15 years now.

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    9 days ago

    I was kinda hanging out with a homies older sister … We kept that super low out of respect for him… Or did we both not want others to know? Dunno…

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    First gf. Grew up Jehovah’s Witness, loved a lovely girl in highschool with everything I had. Another later was never mentioned to family. The cult like nonsense of biased prejudice is quite disgusting in that group.

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    Had a girlfriend once where she broke up with her then-bf to be with me (was heading nowhere anyways and absolutely no overlap) but to avoid gossip and her parents being somewhat strict we hid our dating for a couple months. That was kinda fun. Stayed together for nearly 2 years.