I do pretty regularly flip people off on the road when they are acting crazy, but one time a car almost side swiped me and I honked and flipped the driver off as second nature. The young girl driving the car was mortified and I really hated the way I acted. Can’t avoid using a car in Amerikkka unfortunately and I see how it can turn people into monsters.
I’ve taken to either giving them sarcastic double thumbs up followed by a derisive headshake, or just locking eyes and giving them a slow, negative headshake. Disappointment stings harder than insults.
yeah i try to enter a zen state, just like refuse to get mad, because the truth is there’s nothing we can do to improve other drivers. Pretty much the only things I do are honk when someone’s going the wrong way on a one way and flash my lights when someone’s driving dark at night.
I do pretty regularly flip people off on the road when they are acting crazy, but one time a car almost side swiped me and I honked and flipped the driver off as second nature. The young girl driving the car was mortified and I really hated the way I acted. Can’t avoid using a car in Amerikkka unfortunately and I see how it can turn people into monsters.
I do this, but I’m a pedestrian. Don’t care how bad I make anyone in a car feel.
I’ve taken to either giving them sarcastic double thumbs up followed by a derisive headshake, or just locking eyes and giving them a slow, negative headshake. Disappointment stings harder than insults.
The thumbs up is my go to. In my mind it’s the “wow you’re so good at being shitty!”
Don’t feel bad, you helped teach her a valuable lesson, and she will be less likely to sideswipe people in the future.
👎 may still get you killed with the wrong person, but a little less aggressive while still getting the point across
i’m also a fan of Thumbing one’s nose as it communicates derision, but also you look silly doing it so it’s comes off more lighthearted
“Do you bite your thumb at me??”
I do bite my thumb at you, sir.
yeah i try to enter a zen state, just like refuse to get mad, because the truth is there’s nothing we can do to improve other drivers. Pretty much the only things I do are honk when someone’s going the wrong way on a one way and flash my lights when someone’s driving dark at night.