• Son_of_dad@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    What people want from decade to decade is ever shifting. I don’t think marriage is good in that sense unless you both shift together which is next to impossible. Who I was 10 years ago is not who I am now. I want to be free but nothing I can do about it now

    • AstralPath
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      6 months ago

      Isn’t that the whole point of marriage though? You shouldn’t be getting married if there’s even a shadow of doubt of incompatibility.

      Based on how strongly you seem to feel about it, staying married despite not wanting to be is likely to be a recipe for disaster, don’t you think?