• Evkob
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    1 month ago

    As someone whose credit card has been at the 5000$ limit for a couple of months, I’d say it’s capitalism that’s unsustainable.

    Between groceries, rent, and the occasional treat to make life barely bearable, I don’t have anywhere to cut expenses. My vehicle is a bicycle. I live with three roommates in an old building in a neighbourhood that’s more down-and-leaving than up-and-coming. I only wear thrifted clothes. My diet consists largely of legumes and rice.

    I don’t think you had any ill intent with your comment, I feel like you’re coming from a place of empathy, but it does rub me the wrong way and gives me the impression you might be unaware of the realities that many people are living through right now. I’m relatively lucky, I at least have a roof over my head and never go (too) hungry. A lot of people have it much worse.

    If you have an actual tip to deal with my debts, I’d be all ears, but I highly doubt cutting the little luxuries I do afford myself (an occasional craft beer, 50$ of weed every two months or so, and a takeout meal or two per month) would suddenly make my situation financially sustainable. It’s the landlords and the grocery-monopolies that are unsustainable.

    • Pennomi@lemmy.world
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      1 month ago

      Sometimes you can consolidate your debt to a lower interest block. It has helped several of my friends to fix their high credit card debt.

    • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      If you have an actual tip to deal with my debts, I’d be all ears

      Sometimes letting debt hit collections can give you breathing room and potentially even negotiating room. It’s risky as heck but what I’ve learned from bills my wife physically couldn’t remember to pay after a head injury is that once stuff is in collections you actually have more flexibility.

      Collections buys the debt for a fraction of its value, and will often negotiate to get some paid back over none, plus it often doesn’t gain interest in collections. There’s also a period of months to a few years between the debt becoming delinquent and collections actually forcing your hand to take action. I’ve even heard of people successfully getting debts settled or dismissed when collections goes to court by simply requesting a detailed explanation of where the debt came from (however letting it get to small claims court is the highest-risk tactic to take)