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    When a comedian says shit that bullies others and youā€™re uncomfortable with that youā€™re obligated to pay to see the show and laugh at all of the jokes. If you donā€™t, youā€™re guilty of the crime of ā€œcancel cultureā€ which means youā€™re a terrible person for not watching things you donā€™t like.

    Donā€™t you understand comedy? The audience doesnā€™t decide whatā€™s funny, old comedians go on Joe Rogan and tell you whatā€™s funny. Then you must laugh at the jokes that have been decided are the funny by the comedy authorities. Thatā€™s just how comedy works.

    Laugh when youā€™re told to laugh and nobody has to get hurt. Well except for trans people but the comedy authorities have decided thatā€™s funny and we must never question the comedy authorities. Comedy is a deadly serious business and itā€™s more important than anything else in this world!

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      Cancel culture is when you cross the line of not enjoying something yourself over into attempting to stop others from making their own determination, by preventing them from experiencing it before they could do so. It is the most extreme form of censorship, not merely (helpfully?) labelling but attempting to drive out of existence the recipient. Similarly, free speech has exemptions for harm e.g. defamation.

      To use an example, I have not heard Chappelle say something fully anti-trans, so much as ā€œwhite trans people are still white, and police in Texas will allow them to continue to breathe, while black people can never be anything other than blackā€. If the comedy gods or whatever have deemed that Chappelle must die, well, he seems to be okay with that, but he will never stop advocating for his own cause, which is that POC deserve toā€¦ (checks notes) breathe air.

      That said, he may be slightly anti-trans in the sense that while he may choose to use othersā€™ preferred pronouns as a gesture of friendliness, that does not mean that those can rightfully be DEMANDED at will - our rights end where someone elseā€™s begins, and all that jazz. He has far too many stories how, as a black man in the entertainment business, too many things were TAKEN from him by force, to now enjoy having to give it up to a new minority that is getting all of the attention while black peopleā€¦ hey did you know that BREONNA TAYLOR WAS FUCKING SLEEPING!?

      BTW I have never once listened to any show by Joe Rogan, ever, and I do not intend to start now:-) - and you too should never listen to that racist SOB either (that is the difference between opinion vs cancelling, imho:-D).

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        Dave Chappelle has been ā€œcancelledā€ twice. If cancel culture was real it wouldnā€™t be possible to be cancelled twice. He wouldā€™ve been cancelled once and we wouldnā€™t hear about him again.

        So the first time Dave Chappelle was cancelled, I thought ā€œwell Iā€™m going to watch his comedy special and see what the fuss is all aboutā€. I mostly remember him whining about how bad it is his friend didnā€™t get to host the Oscars. The most Hollywood problem ever. Yeah, thatā€™s something I can relate to, Dave.

        The second time Dave Chapelle was cancelled, I was busy at the time so it was like ā€œwhat happened there? whatever I got other shit to doā€ and kinda forget about it. Then a few days later I turned on Netflix, and you know how they show the top ten rated things on there sometimes? What did I see in that list? New Dave Chappelle comedy special. I thought ā€œHold on, how is this possible? I heard Dave Chappelle was cancelled!ā€ How is it possible that Dave Chappelle have a new comedy special on Netflix on the same week he was cancelled? Not only that, how is it in the top ten rated things on Netflix?

        Then I realized something. This motherfucker is playing us for fools. Yeah I got suckered the first time he got cancelled. I watched the special myself so I could judge for myself what it was about. Chappelle got an additional view from me. He got paid from the ratings he got from people like me wanting to find out why he was cancelled.

        So I checked the autoplay preview thing for his comedy special the second time he got cancelled. Thereā€™s some normal jokes, but then thereā€™s a beatā€¦ ominous musicā€¦ ā€œfolks I have to talk to you all about something serious.ā€ FFS. I donā€™t watch comedy specials so I can hear about what wealthy hollywood assholes think are serious issues. Just be funny, itā€™s your fucking job, dude.

        So no, I didnā€™t watch Chappelleā€™s comedy special the second time he was cancelled. But it was one of the top rated things on Netflix that week, so a lot of other people did.

        So what does it mean to be ā€œcancelledā€ nowadays? It used to be a show was cancelled and that was it, no more show. But now it means there is a still a show on. Does it mean people donā€™t watch the show? Nope Chappelle got good ratings according to Netflix. So what does it mean to be cancelled?

        It seems like being cancelled is when people on the internet criticizes a wealthy established hollywood asshole. To me this cancel culture thing seems to be more about silencing criticism. Though in Chappelleā€™s case, it looks to me like heā€™s gaming it. He sprinkles in a few jokes about an at risk group, gets ā€œcancelledā€ for it and gets a bunch of people to watch his comedy special. Heā€™s done this twice now.

        And I donā€™t like this pattern. Getting ā€œcancelledā€ makes him money. It seems more akin to those shit ā€œprankā€ videos where someone does something thatā€™s complete shit, but even if a bunch of people hate-watch it they still make money from it. This isnā€™t a good direction for comedy.

        And itā€™s really disappointing. A guy like Bill Maher playing the ā€œcancelā€ culture grift I can understand. Heā€™s a talentless hack. But Dave Chappelle? That guy has actual talent. He doesnā€™t need to sink to the level of Bill Maher.

        But I guess Dave Chappelle has had too much money for too long. Whining about his friend not being able to host the oscars as if thatā€™s something the audience can relate to. Heā€™s in the Hollywood bubble now where they start thinking like the audience is the enemy. Like Bill Maher, heā€™s probably going to rely more and more on para-social relationships with fans that trick themselves into thinking heā€™s their friend while he rants about how the audience is bad. ā€œYeah, tell us more about how the audiences are bad! Me? No, Iā€™m not the audience Iā€™m his best friend (in my parasocial fantasies). Me and you against them!ā€

        Itā€™s sad, Dave Chappelle has chosen to take the Bill Maher career path.

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          You have some points there, but there are some crucial (imho) details that I feel like you are just rushing headlong over, which matter. Even so, if you donā€™t want to watch him, then donā€™t - itā€™s as simple as that:-). And I hope you feel free to share your opinion as well, and that we can politely & respectfully discuss that, if you want, as we are doing now:-).

          For one, ā€œbeing cancelledā€ is not the same as ā€œan attempt was made to cancel himā€. Similarly, if he lost out on certain opportunities that he was slated to have - like an opportunity was already extended to him to do something (like host the oscars, or whatever) but then that offer was rescinded - then that would represent a partial rather than full kind of cancelling. In that case, they attempted to cancel him, and did partially manage it by cancelling one of his things, without fully ending either his life or his career. And btw, there was a lot of talk about how Chappelle was basically the first and at the time only person to ever survive such a concerted attempt at being cancelled, so there was likely a lot of fear at the time that he too would become yet another casualty, but then damn somehow he managed to overcome. That was not the expected outcome though - so itā€™s like all those weather reporters saying that a hurricane or rain is 90% likely to hit an area, but then it does not. Oh well. Even so, was the preemptive warning wrong to have been said in the first place, under those conditions?

          And yeah, in any case heā€™s definitely working the system (or at least attempting to), in order to garner sympathy for himself. But that by itself does not mean that he is lying about the events in question? I am sorry that you feel betrayed butā€¦ why assume the absolute worst, especially since as you say, you havenā€™t even listened to his side of it? Donā€™t listen if you donā€™t want toā€¦ but since you are talking about it, why not educate yourself about it first?

          Bill Maher is indeed a talentless hack - but Chappelle is really good, and worth the investment (imho) to find out if heā€™s still worth listening to. Steven Colbert you can tell has also become too powerful to be relatable to me anymore - he says things and people just instantly agree, and heā€™s lost that genuineness that he used to have, itā€™s so sad, a victim of his own success:-(. It is really difficult to maintain humility when you become successful, and I would say likely impossible to do alone, without help from others in their lives to keep them in check. Jon Stewart managed to do it, but nonetheless itā€™s so rare.

          Fwiw, I donā€™t watch Chappelle b/c I can relate to him personally - Iā€™m not black for one, nor famous, nor rich, etc. - but I enjoy him b/c (1) heā€™s funny:-), and (2) he gives me insight into other aspects of life that otherwise I might not understand. e.g. his story about being a black straight man in Texas when a white trans person decided to harass him - THEY can call the cops, being ā€œpassingā€, and fully rest secure in the knowledge that they will survive the encounter. I said it before but daaaayum, BREONNA TAYLOR WAS SLEEPING!!! I like how he has the courage to say how ā€œthe other sideā€ feels about the trans situation, and I like to think that even if I was trans that I would feel the same way, b/c itā€™s helpful for the back-and-forth discussion process for someone to step up and articulate clearly what the core values are of each side - crucially with the caveat that so long as it is done respectfully. And how he says it is this: YOU can do whatever YOU want, but *I* should be allowed to do that too.

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            But what does ā€œmade an attempt to cancel himā€? Expressing that you donā€™t like someone? I think criticism is covered by freedom of speech.

            If other people see someone saying ā€œDave Chappelle sucks nowā€ and then thinks ā€œyeah, I think this person is right, he does suck!ā€ Is that wrong? I think thatā€™s just freedom of thought isnā€™t it?

            The whole anti-cancel culture thing seems to be ā€œI donā€™t like it when people say they donā€™t like the things I like.ā€ But thatā€™s just a consequence of free speech isnā€™t it? People are going to say things you disagree with.

            TV shows have always been cancelled and itā€™s always been for one of two reasons. 1) low ratings and 2) advertisers donā€™t want to be associated with someone or something. Either way itā€™s because of lack of revenue. Itā€™s business.

            Itā€™s no different today. People stop watching something because they donā€™t like it. Show gets cancelled.

            So they question is, are there unacceptable reasons for not liking something? I donā€™t know how to tell you this, but when Iā€™m watching TV, Iā€™ll change the channel for all kinds of arbitrary reasons. I donā€™t like that guyā€™s hair cut click this looks boring click eh, itā€™s ok but thereā€™s probably something else thatā€™s better on click. Everyone of these arbitrary decisions by the audience could result in a show getting low ratings and getting cancelled. But then itā€™s like ā€œI heard on the internet this guy is an assholeā€ suddenly weā€™re all getting upset over how show business works?

            Remember a long time ago Rock Hudson got cancelled for being gay. None of this is new. Itā€™s just more well documented. And the reasons for people not liking a celebrity has changed, but I think for the better. Youā€™re not going to be cancelled for being gay now, but maybe youā€™ll get cancelled for being an asshole to other people.

            And with streaming people are more willing to switch to something else because thereā€™s always a thousand other things you could be watching. And you can start those shows from the beginning whereas before with broadcast TV you would be starting a show from the middle when you change channels. So thereā€™s more competition and show business is more cut throat.

            But at the end of the day itā€™s solely a Hollywood problem. If we completely remove para-social relationships from the equation, then we can think of Hollywood as being a group of monkeys dancing on a stage. Someone in the audience says ā€œthat monkey on the left displeases meā€ and the monkey trainer takes the monkey off the stage and puts another one out there instead. Where is the issue with this? Well it sucks for the monkey I guess, but what impact does it have on society? Not all that much.

            They arenā€™t curing cancer out in Hollywood, they arenā€™t actually doing anything important. If a show gets poor ratings because the didnā€™t market it well and so it gets cancelled itā€™s the exact same impact on society as when a show gets cancelled when it loses ratings because people stop watching because one of the stars said something stupid on the internet. In either scenario people that liked the show wonā€™t get more show, and that sucks I guess. But there will be another show put on TV in itā€™s place, weā€™ll still have entertainment, so it doesnā€™t matter all that much does it?

            But a lot of people in Hollywood are narcissists, and to a narcissist being famous makes them important. They speak like theyā€™re important people. And to a famous narcissist the thought of no longer being famous is the worst thing that could ever happen to them. But theyā€™re not important people. But theyā€™ll talk about cancel culture as if it is important because to a famous narcissist it is the most important thing to them. But for the rest of society itā€™s not actually important. But those para-social relationship with the celebrities who are saying itā€™s important issue leads some people in the audience to think itā€™s important. But it really isnā€™t. A show getting cancelled has the same impact on society regardless of the reason itā€™s cancelled, and that impact to society isnā€™t very much. Theyā€™ll just put another show on, no big deal.

            Of course thereā€™s this whole thing where entertainment and politics have somewhat merged into one thing. Celebrities are politicians and politicians are celebrities now. And that is something that is actually bad for society. People are being politically influenced by their para-social relationships with celebrities. Celebrities that live a weird Hollywood bubble far removed from the problems of the audience. They can exploit these para-social relationships to convince people prioritize issues that impact celebrities over issues that impact themselves.

            I remember Bill Burr on a podcast whining about Gina Coranno being fired for saying stupid shit on the internet. When he was doing that, there were two million people that were unemployed. but since they were unemployed for reasons other than saying stupid shit on the internet the issue of Gina Coranno being fired was 2 million times more important than someone else being unemployed? Strange isnā€™t it? And considering Hollywood people use the internet to promote the shows theyā€™re in, social media is part of the workplace isnā€™t it? Saying stupid shit in the workplace gets non-hollywood people fired, but they donā€™t need to behave professionally in the workplace like everyone else does? Why? Because theyā€™re famous and therefore important than everyone else?

            Really the only problem with cancel culture is thereā€™s not enough of it. Hollywood people should know their place. Weā€™re the audience, weā€™re paying them, weā€™re more important than they are. Guy working as waiter in LA dreaming of becoming an actor someday is contributing more to society than if his dreams come true and he actually becomes an actor in a big movie.

            Theyā€™re just monkeys dancing for our amusement. We should consider them to be interchangeable. Because they are.

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              Once again some good points and yetā€¦ missing the most crucial details, imho. Yes, criticism is covered by free speech (except somehow when Dave Chappelle does itā€¦?:-P). Yes, thinking that someone sucks is just freedom of speech. Yes changing the channel is 100% your ā€œrightā€ - except when TVs start changing to now not let you do so during an ad:-(.

              The main difference between free speech and cancel cultureā€¦ - well, first a digression:

              Freedom of speech does not apply to television, radio, or social media in the same manner. Like if I broke into your house and screamed into your ear all night long ā€œHEY, WAKE UP AND FEED YOUR CAT!ā€ (especially if you donā€™t have a cat!?:-P), that would be weird, right? I can scream that way inside my own house - caveat: so long as it somehow that does not negatively impact my neighboring community - but not as a guest elsewhere.

              Thatā€™s what makes censorship and even more so cancel culture so weird. Dave does not have the right to do anything at all, on e.g. Netflix - all he can do is make a show and try to sell it or give it away. And Netflix has the full ā€œrightā€ to not show his show, presuming that there is not stipulation somewhere in the contract between them saying otherwise.

              But the main difference between free speech and cancel culture is when some asshat makes that decision for you - not even allowing you to see it in order to make up your own mind first. Watching a show and hitting the little downvote icon is NOT cancel culture - though brigading by getting thousands of people to go there and do specifically that WITHOUT FIRST WATCHING THE SHOW - would be an attempt to destroy at least the ratings of the show, in order to attempt to mess up the recommendations (whether successful or not). It is abuse of the idea of censorship, away from ā€œhey he is doing something objectively wrong, or at least in violation of the commonly-accepted standards of conductā€ into becoming, as you say ā€œhey, this guy said something that I did not care for - letā€™s DESTROY HIMā€.

              Sometimes things get complicated b/c unintelligent people can act unintelligently at times - e.g. they may say that they want to do things, and call it e.g. ā€œcancellingā€, but thatā€™s not necessarily what ā€œcancellingā€ actually means. Turning the channel away from someone isnā€™t ā€œcancellingā€, itā€™s just that you personally donā€™t like it. Getting someone fired from their job is ā€œcancellingā€. And btw, cancelling is not always ā€œwrongā€ - getting someone fired who LEGIT NEEDS to be fired can be a good thing. So like a parent turning the channel away from Comedy Central whenever Chappelle comes on, specifically in order to block their kids from seeing it - thatā€™s a form of cancelling, at least within that household? And in that context, it might not be bad, if his form of comedy is deemed detrimental to the mental health of the children.

              Where it crosses a line, imho, is when someone writes to the means of delivery - a TV station, or in this case Netflix - and tries to get him banned from being seen by everyone, even when some of us wanted to be able to see it. How does him being banned increase MY freedoms? Me being able to change the channel whenever I choose is my freedom, but someone else show-blocking meā€¦ is the exact opposite, is it not?

              Especially when it has nothing at all to do with revenue - b/c the show hasnā€™t even aired yet.

              And ironically, that is Chappelleā€™s whole schtick about the trans community: asking other people to use preferred pronounds = totally fine and Iā€™ll do that out of an abundance of friendliness, b/c thatā€™s just how I roll b/c I am awesome, but DEMANDING that I use it? Thatā€™s where the line is crossed - shouldnā€™t I also have some freedoms too, especially inside my own head?

              As for it being relatable, please remember that this is a major issue happening all across America, in schools and workplace environments and everything else. Teachers are literally being fired for not using kidsā€™ preferred pronouns. I donā€™t know why you are not seeing it where you are - if you are retired and donā€™t watch much news or what - but it is EVERYWHERE lately. And now it has spread to books in libraries too, with some people legit and I mean fully literally burning books, yes with actual full-on fire. It is one thing to turn the page and simply choose to not read them, but it has graduated now to the ā€œthose should not exist at allā€ phase.

              Also I disagree that Hollywood has zero impact on the rest of our culture - e.g. if someone made a vaccine against old age, but millions of people refused to take it, but then a TV show made the situation more relatable to people, Hollywood can have more impact than science itself, at least in the boots-on-the-ground sense. I guess it would be the E in STEM in that case, for Education I mean rather than merely Entertainment.

              Comedy in particular causes us to question ourselves, and may impact e.g. voting behaviors, and thereby relates to real life. And all of that on top of the merging of Hollywood & political thinking.

              I hope this helps you see what I see?

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                Yes, criticism is covered by free speech (except somehow when Dave Chappelle does itā€¦?:-P)

                This is the old ā€œWell you canā€™t say X anymoreā€ fallacy. You can. You just did. Itā€™s really ā€œYou canā€™t say X anymore without people criticizing you for it.ā€ Yeah, thatā€™s just how the right to free speech works. Dave Chappelle has the right to say what he wants. Other people have the right to criticize him for it. People have a right to not watch his comedy special. Netflix has the right to decide to not buy what heā€™s selling. Everyone has their rights, but why is it only some violation of rights when it negatively affects a celebrity? Why is that more of a concern than when Chappelle uses his rights in a way that negatively impacts Trans people? Why is he the one thatā€™s so special that no one is allowed to exercise their right in a way that negatively impacts him?

                brigading by getting thousands of people to go there and do specifically that WITHOUT FIRST WATCHING THE SHOW - would be an attempt to destroy at least the ratings of the show, in order to attempt to mess up the recommendations (whether successful or not)

                Why is this a problem? Itā€™s just a TV show, why does it matter?

                Teachers are literally being fired for not using kidsā€™ preferred pronouns.

                Teachers are being fired for emotionally abusing children? Thatā€™s what it is, right?

                If you were a boy in school and your teacher was constantly calling you a sissy girl. When told to stop the teacher refuses, because ā€œthatā€™s what I see that kid as, nothing but a sissy girl. Itā€™s MUH RIGHT to call anyone I want a sissy girl if thatā€™s how I think of them!ā€ Would you think, oh well, thatā€™s cool, thatā€™s the kind of attitude someone entrusted with the development of children should have.

                Come on, you know the teacher would be fired for calling a cis boy a girl. People have a right to think how they want, but when youā€™re in a workplace you have to be a professional. If you canā€™t behave like a professional in the workplace, you get fired. Just how things work.

                Itā€™s sad to me how politics have eroded the concept of workplace professionalism. Used to be there was a rule about the three things you donā€™t talk about at work: sex, religion, and politics. But now thatā€™s been labelled as wokeism or whatever, and people think they have the right to be an asshole in the workplace. Well if your employer has the right to fire you, then they can exercise that right. I have the right to walk into bossā€™s office tomorrow and tell him heā€™s an asshole. And I can do that and no one can stop me. But itā€™s probably not a good career move, is it?

                And then thereā€™s that time someone got all passive aggressive at me for referring to them as a they/them. Like, Iā€™m sorry Pat, weā€™re communicating over email, I donā€™t know your pronouns unless you tell me. Until you indicate your pronouns I have no other option but to refer to you as a they/them. I understand youā€™re in a red state, Pat, but pronouns are just words, either put them next to your name or be cool about people that have never met you in person calling you they/them. FFS I donā€™t actually give a shit about anyoneā€™s gender when Iā€™m at work but I do need to type something to someone else saying ā€œPatā€™s account seems to be locked, could you reset ___ password?ā€ I gotta put something in that blank, Pat. Help me fill in that blank, ok?

                Ok sorry ofr the rant, but the politics around the pronouns are stupid to me. I work with emails and when someone puts their pronouns next to their name (especially when their name is ambiguous) Iā€™m like alright, youā€™re helping me out there. If there werenā€™t so many stupid poiltics around this it would make things easier in the workplace for people that communicate over email. Makes things a lot less awkward, but dumb politics prevents people from doing something thatā€™s useful even in scenarios where there are no Trans people involved. Itā€™s like weā€™re making things more difficult for everyone just to spite trans people.

                Where it crosses a line, imho, is when someone writes to the means of delivery - a TV station, or in this case Netflix

                Do people not have the right to write to Netflix? Does Netflix not have the right to decide what they want to put on their streaming service?

                Once again, weā€™re still in a place where Dave Chappelleā€™s rights matter more than other peopleā€™s rights. The thing about rights is, everyone has them. And many times people will exercise their rights in ways you donā€™t approve of. To some people the way Dave Chappelle exercises hist rights crosses the line. For you, people writing to Netflix crossed the line. But these lines are all subjective.

                So why do people think Dave Chappelleā€™s rights takes precedence over other peopleā€™s rights? Itā€™s just down to para-social behavior. People feeling like Dave Chappelle is their friend so they should stick up for him. If you donā€™t have any trans people as friends then you donā€™t feel like sticking up for them.

                And thereā€™s the rub. Itā€™s why trans people get targeted. Not many trans people around so most people donā€™t have any trans people as friends. The whole trans thing is confusing and uncomfortable. Thereā€™s a surgery involved. Thereā€™s a feeling that trans people are trying to trick us into being gay. If you had no morals and needed a convenient target of hatred to manipulate people, which group is the easiest target? Itā€™s trans people. Itā€™s always trans people. Itā€™s the group they always go after first.

                Depending on the style of comedy, it can be a part of a comedianā€™s job to understand culture. With Dave Chappelleā€™s comedy style thatā€™s definitely the case. Heā€™s not doing Norm MacDonald style comedy where heā€™s pretending to be the dumbest guy in the room while actually being the smartest guy in the room being meta with anyone knowing. Heā€™s not Conan Oā€™Brien doing some silly things. His comedy is about commentary on culture and relating to the audience. If he canā€™t understand the cultural impact of the things heā€™s saying, heā€™s being incompetent at his job.

                Also I disagree that Hollywood has zero impact on the rest of our culture - e.g. if someone made a vaccine against old age, but millions of people refused to take it, but then a TV show made the situation more relatable to people, Hollywood can have more impact than science itself, at least in the boots-on-the-ground sense.

                This is not a good thing. How many people died because they listened to Joe Rogan and took horse de-wormer instead of the covid vaccine? We canā€™t know the number but Iā€™m certain that number is not zero. Yes, celebrities can affect positive change. But they can also create negative change. Having narcissists living in the Hollywood bubble be the arbiters of truth isnā€™t actually a good thing for society. At one time guys like Edward R. Murrow and Walter Cronkite were the arbiters of truth. Now some coked up actor at an orgy with underage boys mashes 280 characters into their iPhone is what determines whatā€™s real for us now. While Edward R. Murrow and Walter Cronkite may have gotten a few things wrong in their careers, I donā€™t think what we have now is an improvement.

                Comedy in particular causes us to question ourselves, and may impact e.g. voting behaviors, and thereby relates to real life.

                Also not a good thing. Two million people unemployed and Bill Burr thinks the most important issue is one Hollywood person losing her job. Dave Chappelle thinks his friend not getting to host the Oscars is an important issue. These guys live in a different world from us. They donā€™t understand what issues issues are important. All they accomplish is making people think the things that impact them are important. Which is a distraction.

                In the end of it all thereā€™s nothing anyone can do about cancel culture. You canā€™t strap people down and force them to watch things they donā€™t like ala Clockwork Orange. Popular people will be on TV and unpopular people wonā€™t be. Thatā€™s just show business. The internet offers celebrities new ways to say and do things that will make them unpopular. When that happens you wonā€™t see them on TV anymore because people donā€™t want someone they donā€™t like on their TV screens.

                The problem is when you have politicians talking about doing something cultural changes because a celebrity convinced people that a cultural shift is a poltical problem that government should be involved in. Politicians running on anti-woke (whatever that means) cultural issues is a very bad thing. The government shouldnā€™t be regulating cultural norms and it feels like thatā€™ where things are headed. And Hollywood assholes ranting on podcasts making people feel like nothing burgers like cancel culture being major problems just puts fuel on that fire.

                I wish we could go back to the days when if a comedian bombed, the only thing they could do was improve their material. Now itā€™s like they have a power over the audience to make people think their weak material is good and if the audience isnā€™t laughing itā€™s because the audience is wrong. Itā€™s all backwards.

                Make comedy funny again.

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                  (Btw someone already downvoted you and I just wanted to be clear that it was not me)

                  You are kinda all over the map here - you jumped from hollywood has zero impact on us to how they are trying to kill us. I get it, both are true, in differing ways, but it points to how complex these topics are (e.g. Hollywood has little direct effects on us, and some people in it are highly irresponsible - also, Joe Rogan is from Austin Texas not Hollywood California, but thatā€™s not terribly relevant, just saying that we could get lost in all the little ā€œdetailsā€ for days on end!:-P).

                  One simplifying rule: Right or Wrong, the biggest thing in life, at least as it relates to Freedom, seems to me to be the notion of ā€œconsentā€. e.g. Hitler/Putin/whoever invades countries: if they somehow wanted that (spank me hardy Nazi daddy) then itā€™s all cool, but on the off-chance that it was nonconsensual, then it is NOT COOL.

                  If Netflix were to drop Chappelle b/c heā€™s not funny, then thatā€™s their choice. But if they drop him b/c one segment of society has an enormous amount of power, especially in proportion to their numbers, then that is ā€œnot fairā€. Why canā€™t *I* watch Chappelle, if I want to, just b/c ā€œtheyā€ say that I canā€™t? Thatā€™s not freedom, and I might have an opinion on that. On the other hand, maybe my opinion is undeserved? Like if Chappelle were to advocate violence against America, that should get him cancelled, or if he were to advocate that we become actual, literal Nazis (even without the urgent and direct call to the actual violence), then that too should get him cancelled. But saying that he is perpetuating ā€œviolenceā€ against trans peopleā€¦

                  On this point I am willing to be convinced, bc I havenā€™t managed to come to a firm stance here yet. Although you havenā€™t even watched his special so you could not be the one to do that for me in any case. On its face though it seems absurd to me - not wanting to call someone by a preferred pronoun is not the same thing as ā€œviolenceā€. And to be clear, *I* myself will call people by their preferred pronoun, plus I also will always use ā€œtheyā€ if it is unknown, but even so I do appreciate his insight there, that consent of all the parties involved should matter. So especially if someone starts the school year with one pronoun and then changes it midway through, it makes sense that it may get difficult to always remember to switch, especially if the person still presents as the other gender (e.g. a man with a deep voice now calling herself a woman - yet still has a deep voice?). Iā€™m saying that itā€™s confusing, and itā€™s NEW.

                  More to the point, Chappelle barely talks about trans people at all (edit: used to, before the attempt to cancel him over it), except to point out the extreme unfairness of it all. Black people have been trying to be called ā€œpeopleā€ for HUNDREDS OF YEARS, but then homosexual white men advocate for their chosen lifestyle and suddenly in ONE DECADE win a Supreme Court that makes it legal to get married? And now trans people are coming up, and even though as you say they are so rare that most of us have never even so much as MET one before (I had lots of gay friends - both men & women, and most of the people I become friends with online seem to be homosexual men, I think b/c of the sensitivity aspect that allows us to enjoy talking with one another - but even so I have never met a single trans person in my entire lifetime that I know of), and yet despite that, they instantly get a seat at the table? Suddenly we all have to use whatever pronouns they want? As if they areā€¦ ā€œpeopleā€? Well, they are, but also: BREONNA TAYLOR WAS SLEEPING!!! His point seems to me to be: why canā€™t black people be treated the same way - as ā€œpeopleā€? - like, whenever a trans person is harmed, people rise up in arms and defend them, but except trans, do that for black? He has this wonderful story about being called into HR and told never to say the ā€œF-a-.ā€(-o-t) word again. He agrees, but asks: ā€œwhy notā€, especially when he can use the N- word with impunity? The response is that he is not one of them. HIS response in turn is that well, he isnā€™t an N- word either!?!?!?!:-P

                  Also, Chappelle has advanced civil rights for his entire lifetime, by breaking into what was previously mostly-white or mostly-black spaces, and bringing audiences together from both races that enjoy his brand. But now the newest minority group has the gall to tell him the equivalent of ā€œthanks bitch-ass n-word, but you can go back out into the fields now, we got thisā€. He feels sleighted, he feels ignored, he feelsā€¦ much like the trans people must feel, except instead of displaying sensitivity, both of those sides for whatever reason cannot seem to get along.

                  And then here we are, talking about what is going on in Hollywood, as if it is important:-). But the whole country is getting up in arms over all of this - to the point of checking peopleā€™s literal genitals, bathrooms, in sports, and on and on. Both sides are pushing on this hot-button topic: either for or against, itā€™s YUGE. What I get from Daveā€™s comedy is that if we put even 1% of that energy and attention into solving racism, then it would be over by the end of the day tomorrow. Right or Wrong (the issue did not arise in just one day hence will not be solved in one either), ā€¦ he has a point? White people have, once again, appropriated civil rights language and processes, and in so doing managed to entirely ignore the oppression of black people. Like, I donā€™t know if refusing to use preferred pronouns is a form of ā€œviolenceā€ (I cannot imagine that it feels very nice, but is that word too extreme?), but what is happening all across the nation to black people - e.g. in Ferguson MO - is ACTUAL VIOLENCE. And it would be nice if BOTH issues were to receive attention, although at the time a lot of his specials were coming out (before BLM, before the situation with Floyd was caught on camera), trans were getting nearly all of the attention while black people little to none, at least, on the larger scale. Thankfully, that has changed somewhat. Exceptā€¦ has it though?

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                    (Btw I donā€™t care about internet points so donā€™t worry about it)

                    I think it sounds all over the place because I recognize that Hollywood is something thatā€™s a significant thing in our society BUT I donā€™t think it should be.

                    More to the point, Chappelle barely talks about trans people at all (edit: used to, before the attempt to cancel him over it), except to point out the extreme unfairness of it all.

                    Seems like a downward spiral to me. So heā€™s making more and more of his routine based not on making the funniest jokes possible, heā€™s making his routine about spite. Sorry I donā€™t find spiteful people all that funny.

                    I think thereā€™s too much focus on whether or not Dave Chappelle has a right to say what heā€™s saying that there isnā€™t enough consideration given to whether or not what heā€™s doing is actually right. Heā€™s bullying people in his show. Creating a culture where itā€™s normalized to denigrate people that are already has a big target on them.

                    While everyone has a right to say something that is wrong, trying to keep the discussion focused only on the right to say something is just avoiding the fact that Chappelle is in the wrong here.

                    I love Norm MacDonaldā€™s (RIP) take on this. Something like ā€œyeah I might be just joking around about trans people but then someone takes it the wrong way and beats the shit out of a trans person.ā€ Norm was one of the most fearless comedian of all time but he stopped making trans jokes. Not because he was afraid of being cancelled (itā€™s Norm, cā€™mon) but because he understood that an old joke isnā€™t as important as someone getting the shit kicked out of them. Even if thereā€™s only a possibility of that happening is it worth it? Itā€™s just entertainment, itā€™s not really worth that much.

                    Sometimes jokes just expire. Old jokes that just arenā€™t funny anymore just have to be retired.

                    So I was a teenager when the movie Ace Ventura Pet Detective came out. Prime demographic for that movie. At the end of the movie there are a lot of trans jokes. I laughed at these jokes. But in the thirty years since that movie came out, Iā€™d like to think I learned a few things. One of the things Iā€™ve learned in the decades since seeing that movie was that trans people are people. Those jokes were mean spirited. And if I see that movie again, the ending only reminds of what a stupid shit I was when I was a teenager. Iā€™d be cringing too hard to be capable of laughing at those jokes. So Iā€™ll probably not be watching Ace Ventura again because I know the cringe thatā€™ll be having at the end of the movie. Cancelled.

                    In my town many years before I was born there were minstrel shows. You know shows, where guys put on blackface and pranced around like fools. My parentā€™s generation had a discussion about this one time. People would pack up the kids go to these shows and have a good time. But then at some point people realized ā€œwait this is super racist.ā€ and everyone started going to the shows. So the people that did the shows made some changes. No more black face. From that point forward it just be a show with clowns. Same basic show, but no more blackface. You know what happened? Nobody went. People just didnā€™t feel good about buying tickets, packing up the kids and going to the show even after the blackface element was removed. When itā€™s an entertainment product, it really doesnā€™t take all that much to decide ā€œnah Iā€™m not going to make effort to go to something I donā€™t feel completely good about.ā€ The show was shut down permanently. Cancelled.

                    Culture changes, what was funny in the past is no longer funny now. So why is Dave Chappelle still making trans jokes 30 years after Ace Ventura? Is there a link there to the anti-trans politics happening now?

                    Dave Chappelle isnā€™t worth watching now. If Netflix doesnā€™t want their brand associated with Chappelleā€™s downward spiral into bigotry (which isnā€™t funny to a lot of people), they have the right to disassociate themselves from him. He has a right to say what he wants to say, but there is no right to have a comedy special on Netflix. If thatā€™s the case, I want to star in a comedy special on Netflix, I think Iā€™m a funny guy. If Netflix denies me a comedy special, will you be angry about them denying me my rights?

                    Or is it because Dave Chappelle is famous he has the right to be on Netflix? And weā€™re back to that para-social relationship with celebrities that makes people feel they deserve special treatment and they have the right to things we donā€™t have a right to.

                    Dave Chappelle has the right to say what he wants even when heā€™s wrong. But that doesnā€™t mean he isnā€™t wrong. Netflix has the right to cancel his show, itā€™s their streaming site. People have the right to petition Netflix to cancel Chappelle.

                    None of this wouldā€™ve happened if Chappelle had a better awareness of the shifts in cultural norms. Which is part of his job. He didnā€™t do his job very well, and anyone

                    But the whole country is getting up in arms over all of this - to the point of checking peopleā€™s literal genitals, bathrooms, in sports, and on and on. Both sides are pushing on this hot-button topic

                    And is Dave Chappelle making things better? Perhaps itā€™s better for Netflix to stop showing his specials until people settle down a little?

                    Also itā€™s not quite a both sides kind of thing. One side wants to take away peopleā€™s right to live their lives how they want. The other side wants everyone to continue to have that right. Itā€™s not so much pushing the issue, itā€™s more like pushing back against people that want to take away rights from a group thatā€™s a convenient target. Trans people have been around my whole life. Why all of a sudden all this urgency about this? Could it be something fabricated by people that want to take away rights, and this happens to be the group that a lot of people would tolerate losing rights? Call me paranoid, but I donā€™t know if the people that want to take away the rights of one group of people will stop there.

                    And these are actual rights. not Hollywood ā€œrightsā€ which seem to be all about the ā€œrightā€ of famous narcissists to remain famous even when people donā€™t like them anymore. Donā€™t worry so much about Chappelle, heā€™s a millionaire, heā€™ll be fine. Trans people thoughā€¦ Iā€™m not sure if theyā€™ll be fine if things keep going the way they are.