• gaydarless
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    1 year ago

    “It is what it is.” It’s such a meaningless truism* and almost always comes across as dismissive of the person you’re speaking to. Just say, “It sucks but we have to get through it,” or “We can’t change this situation” or something else. Literally any alternative. Please!