I just lost my job and its been months of endless searching. I feel like the interviews go well but I still don’t have anything. I am giving up all my hobbies and pretty much everything me from killing myself and I still cannot find anything. I am close to losing my apartment and everyday is a nightmare. I am starting to self harm I cannot afford to get help I can’t even eat full meals anymore and I do not know what to do.
Don’t give up! Unlike gambling, this is something that you never lose until you give up. Just know that it’s generally not because of your poor skills why you aren’t getting the jobs that you’re interviewed for. Sure, sometimes it’s because someone else’s skills are better than yours but often it’s just luck, some stupidity on their end (they just “forget” to hire someone for several month) or a myriad of other reasons, most of which are not your fault.
Just assign a percentage to how likely you will move on from an interview stage… pretend it’s 10% for example. If you did 10 interviews, then there is only a 34% probability that all 10 would reject you. I.e. the more you try the higher your chances.