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Cake day: July 8th, 2023

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  • Thank you for the kind words, and I do appreciate your comment.

    I’ve sought local groups in the past – unfortunately now I am 100% homebound and there’s no ‘dragging’ myself to meetings. It’s not because it’s ‘unpleasant’. I cannot even leave the house for doctor appointments. It’s not a matter of will – it’s a physical impossibility now.

    I get that it’s hard to understand, but some conditions are literal physical barriers, not mental ones. And it’s also hard to understand, but no amount of philosophical ‘engaging with the universe’ can overcome the physical torment of a degenerative disease. That’s very hard to understand if you’ve always been healthy, because it’s too far outside your paradigm.

    I honestly appreciate your advice, and I really wish what you’re saying could help, but I didn’t just slide into this mentality because I hadn’t already tried all that. (eta: I tried everything I could to not give up my career – it was my calling and what gave me purpose; everything from counselling to support groups to alternative medicine to weird diets, to therapies and even psychedelic drugs to reset my nervous system.) I’ve always been a fighter, I meditate a lot, and I’ve tried all the things. I’ve actively looked for solutions this whole time. Some problems are bigger than that, and our society is currently actively against people in my situation.

    Thank you, but the fact that I’m still here is my biggest problem right now, and I’m not yet willing to fix that part.












  • Because irony has been bludgeoned to death by these bigots, I’d like to point out they’ve already been performing sex-reassignment surgery on intersex infants to make them conform to a binary sex, without the knowledge or consent of the baby and sometimes the parents. That’s been happening for ages in some places.

    So all their tantrums over kids getting sex surgeries are technically true, except they have it completely backwards. It’s done to newborns to force traditional conformity, and they’re the ones doing it.