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  • First past the post tends to produce adversarial politics, whereas proportional representation trends to produce collaborative politics.

    Canada used to be better about that because we had more minority governments, but things have been moving closer to American style two party.

    I completely agree that the divisiveness at a community level is also a problem, but electoral reform is a concrete thing we can advocate for that will improve this.

    The majority of Canadians support proportional representation, so the barrier is getting politicians to put down short sighted self interest.






  • Yeah, the phenomenon isn’t unique to trans people if viewed through the lens of expectations for their child. It just takes on a much more extreme reaction/framing when transphobia is involved.

    I don’t begrudge my mom for feeling sad about realizing I’m not who she wanted me to be, but those aren’t feelings you should voice to your child who is already struggling.


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    5 months ago

    The joke is that they already think that about themselves. The suicide rate for trans people, especially those who can’t transition, is extremely high.

    When I realized I was trans I knew I had no choice but to do it, damn the consequences, because I could see the other option would only lead to my death in a pit of despair and self-hatred.


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    It’s an emotional reaction rooted in transphobia, not a logical one.

    But to my point of a loss of expectations, that part is like when kids don’t turn out how their parents had hoped. To use another cliche, when their kid who was going to be a doctor runs off to do art instead.

    Those parents that love unconditionally will let go of those expectations, learn to love their kid for who they actually are, and in time appreciate their transition as a period of growth rather than loss.






  • I guess it depends how you conceptualize the automation genre.

    W&R:SR is light on the “lots of little buildings turning a few ingredients to something else” of the genre leading games, but it’s way closer to modded Factorio levels of logistic complexity than any other city builder I can think of. At least, if you’re trying to make it so you don’t have to micromanage your established industries. Logistics is such a core part to the genre that I figured this would be of interest to folks here 🙂







  • The last term was an excellent example of it not quite being two party, with the NDP pushing a liberal minority for some significant gains. It’s not nearly as good or democratic as it could have been, but I think it’s important for us to remember what ground we do still have. This election could be an opportunity to galvanized support for proportional representation with so many people voting liberal out of perceived necessity.

    It continuously astounds me than the NDP and Greens don’t make more noise about electoral reform.

    Agreed, but that just means we have to. Democracy is strongest when we’re engaged in more than just elections. Check out https://www.fairvote.ca/ to get involved.



  • wjrii hit the nail on the head. If you categorically don’t like the vibe it might not be for you. Like any true Trek show it takes time to find its feet. The plot is coarse and hamfisted (as a trans person, the trans allegory episode was hard to get through) but eventually turns around to be a good example of scifi for contemporary social commentary. The humour (both quality and balance) improves but it doesn’t stop being a Seth MacFarlane show. I value its earnesty, but it’s pretty far down the list for my suggested “Star Trek” viewing order.