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    1 year ago

    I’m definitely bad at striking conversations up with random people, so living somewhere that was walkable wasn’t as magical for me as it seems to be for a lot of people here in the comments, but I will say it was definitely better. I got out more, saw people more, just generally felt like I was actually doing thing instead of just moving between my bed and office like now.

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      1 year ago

      same. i’m still an introverted awkward autistic weirdo and i’ve had just as much trouble making friends living in a city as anywhere else. but one of the things i like about living here is that even though i’m basically always alone, i’m also always around other people. it’s nice imo

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        I also found that I would often see the same people again and again, so it got to the point where maybe we wouldn’t really talk, but we’d nod/wave at each other and just generally felt like I was part of a community.