• Rentlar
    15·
    11 months ago

    But why the hell would your friends hang out with you if they all hated you?

    “Yeah we have too much love in our life, we need to bring someone into our group just to hate on them.” - No friend group, ever, other than bullies.

    • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      8·
      11 months ago

      I know. And I keep telling my stupid brain that.

      I do keep acting as if I truly believe that my friends and close ones like me, but sometimes it really does feel like a mask. The most productive thing to do is to act as if you are liked, even if you don’t believe it.

      But no yeah irrational brain is dumb. Ever catching onto the smallest innocent thing, thinking “this is it” (it’s almost never it). It’s exhausting.

      • Rentlar
        1·
        11 months ago

        I impulsively calculate and iterate on the “what-if this, what-if that” myself too, which is unhealthy and leads me to stress when I overdo it.

    • idunnololz@lemmy.world
      3·
      11 months ago

      Cause ur a joke. They invite you so can observe what a disaster you are so they can joke about you after you’ve left. They need to invite you back every now and then to get new material. /s

    • queermunist she/her@lemmy.ml
      31·
      11 months ago

      Clearly they’re only hanging out with me out of pity or guilt, which is how I know I’m a burden and should bother anyone!