• Phoonzang@lemmy.world
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      I googled megging because I thought it was some Family guy reference. I was thoroughly disappointed…

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      There’s this dark underbelly of femininity that people can only ever whisper about and it’s so annoying.

      Like 2/3 of women having a rape kink. Two thirds. That’s insane. But it’s like the world’s best kept secret.

      Women don’t care about dick size but they also rave about how big this one dick was when they’re drunk enough.

      Women want a good, respectful, stable man but they go home with Ol’ Womanbeater Joe every time.

      It’s so goddamn annoying and every time you bring it up, first you’ll get 100% of women saying “well maybe SOME women are like that but I WOULD NEVER” yeah sure. And then if you press the issue you get called an incel or red pill.

      Women please just be fucking honest about what you want. Especially to yourself. Don’t pretend you love salad when you always end up ordering the cheeseburger.

      Edit: see?

      • 𝘋𝘪𝘳𝘬@lemmy.ml
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        I am pretty sure you’re not just a Andrew-pilled incel but you have scientific, peer-reviewed sources for your claims you just forgot to link.

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          I just spent an hour (on and off during downtime at work) getting you links and then my finger brushed the “cancel” button when picking up my phone and it all vanished. It’s demoralizing as hell and I don’t have the energy. I’ll get back to you tonight.

          I literally put down my phone and put my head in my hands. I was so pleased with my response. It’s terrible. I’m not ignoring you though.

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        That is all hyperbole.

        Sure women have rape kinks but they’re in the same vein as people’s incest kinks. In their fantasy, they’re taken by an attractive person, who won’t hurt them, won’t infect and pose zero risk. It’s just fantasy. They don’t want an actual stranger to just violently use them. Just like most guys dont want to fuck their actual siblings/mother.

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          Yes of course, but my point is that a) it’s incredibly common, and b) we’re not allowed to acknowledge that it’s true.

          It’s not like, say, masturbation, which everyone acknowledges is a thing but isn’t polite to talk about. Everyone just straight up REFUSES TO BELIEVE certain things about women that data and anecodes both prove are common.

          The only people who openly talk about these things are red pill misogynist bastards.

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          people have harmless fantasies

          And we acknowledge this is true for men, but not for women.

          But the vast majority of men and women realize or will realize that they prefer

          Sounds like wishful thinking.

          [paraphrasing] Maybe you’re just imagining things?

          I’ve seen the stats.

          [paraphrasing] I do fine, so everyone can do fine.

          I do fine too, because I’m attractive. But that’s irrelevant. In general, what I’ve mentioned is quite common (and those are just examples). But we’re not allowed to acknowledge any of it.

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            Alright, I’ll pretend that you’re coming at this from a place of good faith discussion.

            I guess I’m wondering, in what context do you want to talk about this? There are articles and studies that talk about the rape fantasy thing. There are online communities where you can have healthy discussions about this in an intellectual and academic way.

            I think the existence of 50 shades and other similar media is about as open as you can be about this stuff.

            So I ask again, what exactly is the context in which you want to talk about this? Do you, as a man, want to just tell women they have secret rape fantasies? That would be odd.

            Do you want to interrupt a discussion about the dangers of men actually raping women and tell them that they are statistically likely to have had harmless fantasies about it? What does that add to a discussion about misogyny and rape?

            I’m struggling to see the intersection of where the “dark side of femininity” should be discussed but isn’t.

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        world’s most kept secret

        some rando on Lemmy tells it to everyone

        Mfw I am finally enlightened, ty

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          Yeah, red pills are the only ones willing to openly talk about this shit. Which is a failure on the part of everyone else. It helps them get recruits.

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        Jesus Christ what a fucking freak. A rape kink doesn’t mean you want to be raped, freak. Yes women are care about superficial bullshit, and you think men don’t?

        You freak. Loser. Weirdo. Incel.