What opinion just makes you look like you aged 30 years

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    1 year ago

    Every time a new technology comes out we think it’s going to make our lives so much more simple, but what really happens is the expectations of what we should be capable of doing increase and as a result we take on more responsibilities. One example is cars. You can travel further now, right? Only, now it’s normal to drive an hour to commute to work. Or now you have a wider area of travel you’re expected to make to visit people you know.

    My boomer opinion is that smartphones have done this in a big way. I’m expected now to be available 24/7 to respond to texts on a moments notice. Not responding looks rude. I’ve been in workplaces that had a culture of checking work messages on Teams on cellphones outside of hours (which I refuse to do). My friends will have long group messages that I’m expected to keep up with. All of this responsibility adds up to more stress than we had in a pre cellphone era. And that hasn’t translated to better lives for us in the end. There are advantages and I appreciate many of the things our high tech era gives us. But part of me longs for that era where we just had to trust that people would show up to get togethers at the agreed upon times. When conversations were special because we didn’t just have 24/7 access to each other. Where we had to decipher maps to take road trips. Where we were more present with each other. I was born in the 90’s which puts me in a strange generation of people that only kind of remember what it was like before.

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        1 year ago

        Yeahhh, that one doesn’t really play into the rest of what I said 😅 That’s just nostalgia. It’s hard to argue that Google Maps hasn’t made our lives easier in just about every way we use it unlike the other tech I mentioned…

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          1 year ago

          I’ve tried to come up with the perfect “middle ground” between a full-fledged smartphone and an old dumbphone. GPS is one of the modern features I would want to keep for sure.