• samus12345@lemm.ee
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    1 month ago

    They key thing to note here is he does it because he’s impatient, not because he’s such a nice guy. There is no way he’s not a pushy asshole, even if he hides it behind passive-agressive behavior.

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      1 month ago

      I think it’s more like somebody who doesn’t respect this boundary probably doesn’t respect other boundaries, too. This is just unhinged behavior, sorry. It’s at best profoundly embarrassing.

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        1 month ago

        My boyfriend’s beige flag is that he gets impatient at restaurants and helps the waitress bring the plates to our table

        Yes, I do know that, because it’s explicitly stated.