A) Yeah bad idea to tell her it’s people you know. You can see why someone might freak out and feel uncomfortable/paranoid about that. It’s not someone random you’d never meet, like a celeb or pornstar -it’s people you know in real life.
B) Her age checks out. Young people tend to be more insecure. However I still think point A stands
Some people can only understand when it happens to them. So maybe if you flipped it. She tells you she’s getting off on pictures of a guy she knows. Maybe she used to work with him or still does. How would you feel?
A) Yeah bad idea to tell her it’s people you know. You can see why someone might freak out and feel uncomfortable/paranoid about that. It’s not someone random you’d never meet, like a celeb or pornstar -it’s people you know in real life.
B) Her age checks out. Young people tend to be more insecure. However I still think point A stands
Some people can only understand when it happens to them. So maybe if you flipped it. She tells you she’s getting off on pictures of a guy she knows. Maybe she used to work with him or still does. How would you feel?