There’s definitely some additional nuance (like a pronouns in bio/username situation) but this should cover the broad needs of anyone who is approaching this with good faith.

  • spujb@lemmy.cafeOPEnglish
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    1 day ago

    Definitely :( and it’s a super hurtful thing.

    But! of course! that only happens when the offending person knows the pronouns and uses they/them anyway (right side of the flowchart). I see you are already getting downvotes from people who are so riled up they assumed for ya you meant both cases. Ugh.

    Thanks for being normal ❤️