• Stamets@startrek.website
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    11 months ago

    Cool.

    I haven’t had a hug in 13 years.

    Last gift I got given was 5 years ago when homeless and begging for food. Someone gave me a sandwich with dog shit in it.

    No one does anything for me. Ever.

    I’m going to go cry and contemplate suicide again.

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      11 months ago

      Why? This life is such a gift and every day is a chance to change what you don’t like about it. Invest some time and effort into it. You have the power to turn life into anything you want and you are just going to throw it away? Quit whining and put in work. This whole “poor me” shtick is lame. A hug is a two way street. How many times have you put yourself out there to receive a hug? Be a hugger. Offer. I went to a 40th birthday party for my friend lastnight which I don’t go out much… I hugged every person that I hadn’t seen for 20 years. Every person hugged me back. Do something for yourself and for other people and stop expecting MFs to make it happen for you. Damn.

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        11 months ago

        I am physically disabled without the means to afford food and medication at the same time.

        But yes, sure, I can totally change my situation! Lemme just go out and hug random strangers! I mean, that’s totally gonna be fine, right? I could probably make one of those signs and go out with free hugs and get them from people. Not like I’ve done that and people openly mocked me until they told me to go kill myself, right? Nah. It’s totally a normal thing!

        But yeah, I’m just whining. I just gotta put in the work! I’m sure that if I do a few worksheets i’ll be able to walk again without the use of a cane! If I just complete this book then my family will love me and I won’t have Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from being physically and verbally abused until I was 18!

        Sure, its all just poor me. I just guess I don’t want to fix the issues of severe depression. I just decided to be sad one day and today I’ma decide to be happy! It’s not like there are literal chemical imbalances in the brain that are causing these problems. Nope. I can just change it! I’ma even decide to be straight today too!

        Go suck on a tailpipe.

        Edit: You know, for a ‘wholesome memes’ community, you guys tend to really support the patently obviously troll victim blaming and screaming to just ‘get over it’. Y’all are flagrantly fucking disgusting. Thanks for making that really obvious really face.

        Wholesome my ass.

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          11 months ago

          There are plenty of people out there that are disabled that are a force for good and positivity. Don’t give me that shit. I was an alcoholic, I was abused by my father, sexually abused by a young man, I have ptsd, depression anxiety, I refused to accept that I would lead a miserable life any more. You do what you can to change the situation. I’m sorry you are disabled, I’m sorry you are depressed but those things don’t have to define you. That defeatist mindstate you are stuck in is what makes people avoid you, not the fact that you have a fucking cane. Jesus, cry me a river, you act like you are the only person who ever had a problem in life. Pick yourself the fuck up and keep trying to better your situation. Seek out medications to fix your depression. Do something besides sitting on the internet having a fucking pity party for yourself.