Keep trying. Self advocating is important, but growing up, I (and probably you) were taught that loyalty to company, hard work, and blending in was ah that mattered and that you would be taken care of. That’s all BS, but it’s hard to break that thought process. It takes time, and confidence (which is also very hard).
Thank you. My current job is pretty chill now. I’ve also learned to better self advocate, which was learned too late in life
I still haven’t learned that balance yet, so kudos for your bravery to be willing to learn new things:-).
Keep trying. Self advocating is important, but growing up, I (and probably you) were taught that loyalty to company, hard work, and blending in was ah that mattered and that you would be taken care of. That’s all BS, but it’s hard to break that thought process. It takes time, and confidence (which is also very hard).
Trek can be a bit utopian
I mean… As a post yesterday shows us, only a little bit:-)