So for those of you who do not know a cuckquean is a woman that enjoys watching her boyfriend/husband have sex with other women who are younger, hotter and have bigger tits than her. A cuckcake is the female version of a bull that is younger, hotter and has bigger tits than the cuckquean. the cuckcake’s job is to make sure the cuckquean knows how inferior she is.

In some situations the cake might never actually be seen by the cuckquean. The cuckquean may just hear about her husbands affairs. Perhaps getting letters or dirty panties.

At other times, the cuckcake might be there, involved in the direct humiliation of the cuckquean. Often with the cuckquean watching, preparing, or cleaning up after the cake.

Sometimes the cuckcake is quite dominant – leading the humialition and actively degrading the cuckquean.

Cuckqueaning is an actual that lots of women from the kink community enjoy. Some cuckqueans enjoy the humialition and degradation from it and some cuckqueans enjoy just watching their boyfriend/husband have sex with other women who are younger and more attractive than them.

So my question for you is do you think it’s okay for women to be into cuckqueaning or no?

Me personally I think it’s okay for men and women to enjoy cuckolding/cuckqueaning as long as everyone involved in it are consenting adults.

  • Match!!@pawb.socialEnglish
    1·
    3 hours ago

    Cucking as a kink setup is fun because there’s all sorts of gender and sexual dynamics variations (though a lot of them are as-yet unexplored)

    For example, I’ve seen a lot of transmasc / FTM cucks (not cuckqueans) who fantasize about their girlfriends getting “taken” by cis guys or trans women, which is neat because it’s degrading but can also be gender-affirming to be cucked in the same way a cis guy would be.

    There’s still a lot more that could be explored in that space, like, say, a gay couple where the bottom is cuckqueaned by the top having sex with a cuckcake [male or female], or the top being cuckqueaned, which would have a different sexual dynamic.

  • zshornyposting@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    1·
    8 hours ago

    My partner and I are in a Stag/Vixen dynamic, so the humiliation aspects of Cuckqueaning is not really for us. In a previous relationship I had a casual sex partner who liked giving head, and she always tried to get me to compare her to my ex which made me hella uncomfortable and led to me no longer seeing her. I just don’t like putting people down in that way. More passive degradation, like making the cuckquean eat a load out of the cuckcake I like though, so long as the cuckquean gets off on it too

  • hendrik@palaver.p3x.deEnglish
    14·
    6 days ago

    It’s okay to be into all sorts of things. It’s important to have consent from all participating parties. And no one should get harmed. And that’s it. If you can do that, you should do whatever pleases you. Everyone likes different things.

  • ayawnymouse@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    9·
    6 days ago

    It sounds like an amazing fantasy (for the guy anyway) which could be difficult and potentially lead to hurting people in reality.

    Not saying it doesn’t work great for some, but you might not know beforehand if your relationship is in the set that survives such things.

    If my SO asked me to try it, I’d have to research and think and discuss long and hard about it with her before deciding.

    But it certainly sounds like fun.

    • Mk677yearroundOPEnglish
      9·
      6 days ago

      I don’t think the most men would enjoy cuckqueaning because I don’t think most men would enjoy humiliating their wife by telling her that the other woman that he is having sex with is younger and more attractive than her.

      But hot husbanding however is a kink that I think most men would enjoy doing with their wife. Because in hot husbanding the husband is allowed to have sex with other women while his wife watches him but with no humiliation being involved at all.

  • DarkThoughts@fedia.io
    7·
    5 days ago

    From the opposite side it is of course often a certain fantasy, especially a very stereotypical male fantasy, and generally kinks should be respected, but cuckolding is also a huge minefield that can potential wreck relationships if not treated carefully. Communication and consent is important to avoid someone getting hurt and boundaries should be set beforehand and always be respected by all parties involved. Some steps can’t be undone, so one should always carefully consider what lines they want to cross, or if they want to keep it just a fantasy, as reality can often differ from the expectations we make up in our heads.