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      7 months ago

      And not once did you run away calling them all rapists while going to fetch a bear?

      Why are you continuing to get mad at this strawman?

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              7 months ago

              Having realistic fears around dealing with men does not mean I hate them.

              What are you even trying to cope about? Do you identify with the subgroup of men who are dangerous or are you just upset that women aren’t mindreaders so they are cautious around men, and taking it out on women and not the dangerous men who have created the climate of fear and uncertainty?

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                  7 months ago

                  I’m gay, I’m literally part of the group of men who would never be dangerous to a woman.

                  Oh buddy. Gay men can be real shitheads to women(I’ve literally been assaulted by a gay man as an incredibly shitty joke, also see: “I can’t be misogynistic, I’m gay!”), and also we can’t tell if someone is gay or bi.

                  Don’t get me wrong, you’re totally allowed to have fears. But punishing the majority for the mistakes of a minority is literally a war crime

                  You’re equating people being cautious around you to a punishment.

                  Also the permissive attitude of the majority of men is what allows a minority to abuse women.