• CheesyCheese1 [She/her]OP
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      6 months ago

      Who else would such a meme be targeted to especially when this is a women’s space.

      • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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        This isn’t a transfem community, nor a transfem enby-excluding community, afaik. There is a transfem community on Lemmy, but it’s explicitly inclusive of enbies, so still not just a women’s space.

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          And it’s connected to the whole rest of the Fediverse, which is certainly not a women-only space. Things you post here will be seen outside the context of this magazine.

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          Transfem and enby are mutually exclusive terms, a person can be one or the other but not both.

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            Enby is an umbrella term that can includes people who are transmasc (ie: demiboys, libramascs), transfems (ie: demigirls, librafems), multigender, agender, genderfluid, and xenogenders. Transfem just describes the direction of transition and is not just limited to binary trans women.

            • CheesyCheese1 [She/her]OP
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              That doesn’t make sense, a person cannot want to be “NonBinary” and also want to be a trans woman at the same time.

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                  because nonbinary is being neither male nor female and transfem is being a woman, a binary gender. They are not the same thing.

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                    Your definitions are overly simplistic. There are bigender people who are male and female and are still non-binary.

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                    Fem and woman aren’t synonyms. How else would you describe someone who was AMAB but is librafem, isn’t a woman and even further from being a man, but still has a connection to femininity?

                    Lots of transfem people are women, but its sorta like a rectangle and square (all squares are rectangles, but only some rectangles are squares). Practically all trans woman are transfem, but not all transfem people are women.

          • fracture [he/him] @beehaw.org
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            the way you’re trying to exclude trans men from a general trans space “because most of the memes are trans fem” is really othering and hurtful

            i don’t feel like that reason makes it okay to be exclusive to trans men. if anything, that strikes me as a reason to be more considerate, not less

            sort of like how a typical women’s space should be considerate in including trans women, since they’re a minority of a marginalized group, no?

            incidentally, you should see that the rules of the subreddit which forbid bigotry and encourage tagging your post with the audience it’s aimed at