• AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world
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      22 days ago

      Yo, just run it under hot water for half a minute. The metal in the lid expands before the glass does, making it easier to open.

      -males explain things to you without provocation.

      • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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        22 days ago

        This isn’t a transfem community, nor a transfem enby-excluding community, afaik. There is a transfem community on Lemmy, but it’s explicitly inclusive of enbies, so still not just a women’s space.

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          22 days ago

          And it’s connected to the whole rest of the Fediverse, which is certainly not a women-only space. Things you post here will be seen outside the context of this magazine.

        • CheesyCheese1 [She/her]OP
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          21 days ago

          Transfem and enby are mutually exclusive terms, a person can be one or the other but not both.

          • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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            21 days ago

            Enby is an umbrella term that can includes people who are transmasc (ie: demiboys, libramascs), transfems (ie: demigirls, librafems), multigender, agender, genderfluid, and xenogenders. Transfem just describes the direction of transition and is not just limited to binary trans women.

          • fracture [he/him] @beehaw.org
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            21 days ago

            the way you’re trying to exclude trans men from a general trans space “because most of the memes are trans fem” is really othering and hurtful

            i don’t feel like that reason makes it okay to be exclusive to trans men. if anything, that strikes me as a reason to be more considerate, not less

            sort of like how a typical women’s space should be considerate in including trans women, since they’re a minority of a marginalized group, no?

            incidentally, you should see that the rules of the subreddit which forbid bigotry and encourage tagging your post with the audience it’s aimed at