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spaduf@slrpnk.netM to Men's Liberation · 1 year ago

Why It's So Hard for Men to Say No to Sex and Why Saying Yes to Unwanted Sex Has Consequences.

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Why It's So Hard for Men to Say No to Sex and Why Saying Yes to Unwanted Sex Has Consequences.

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spaduf@slrpnk.netM to Men's Liberation · 1 year ago
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... and why saying yes to unwanted sex has consequences.
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    What’s wrong with it? (Genuine question)

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      Acknowledging men’s emotions

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        Wait… we have emotions?

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          No.,

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            well that’s a relief

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              Is relief an emotion?

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                I’m often emotional after pooping.

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                oh shit

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      Is that the org that said large condoms are bullshit and just a thing for insecure dudes?

      If so, they can fuck off. If not, I’m sure I can find another reason to hate them.

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        “Wearing items that fit comfortably is a hallmark of insecurity” -galaxy_brain.png

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      i am also wondering this, this thread feels like the goddamn twilight zone

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        There are some pretty weird-ass comments here, that’s for sure! I scrolled, but didn’t feel like engaging. I didn’t think “saying yes to unwanted sex can be harmful” was a hot take, especially in this community, but… ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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