And yet all the comments lament how unfair family court is to men, as if that isn’t also a reporting effect caused by the specific kind of guy who’s wife would drag him into family court instead of mediating.
There’s certainly discrepancies in what either gender can get away with more often than the other, but folks sure seem paranoid about the Boogeyman of a false accusation in an environment where victims have to borderline hound police into even testing their kits.
Dude it’s absurdly gendered too.
Woman does something wrong in a 15 year marriage: “dump her, take the kids, empty the bank account. She’s psychotic.”
Man does something super sketchy a week into a relationship: “relationships take work.”
And yet all the comments lament how unfair family court is to men, as if that isn’t also a reporting effect caused by the specific kind of guy who’s wife would drag him into family court instead of mediating.
There’s certainly discrepancies in what either gender can get away with more often than the other, but folks sure seem paranoid about the Boogeyman of a false accusation in an environment where victims have to borderline hound police into even testing their kits.
Too true. They say things that “sound right” and don’t even look at the stats on this stuff