Me personally? I’ve become much less tolerant of sexist humor. Back in the day, cracking a joke at women’s expense was pretty common when I was a teen. As I’ve matured and become aware to the horrific extent of toxicity and bigotry pervading all tiers of our individualistic society, I’ve come to see how exclusionarly and objectifying that sort of ‘humor’ really is, and I regret it deeply.
I argue this as well. I think things turning gender-neutral is more progressive than them being cut, unless I’m missing something. I got kicked out of a progressive community (that I really wanted to stay in) partially because they disagreed with me on that opinion (along with the word “dude” as an interjection) and wanted everyone in lock-step. I will never forgive them.
I also think “guys” and “dude” have a level of informality and nuanced humor that doesn’t have an easy substitute.