• MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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    9 months ago

    The vagina is an elastic organ and the “loose vagina” arguments are just bad women’s anatomy. Besides situations like recent birth or similar trauma or consistently using toys that put Siswet to shame you won’t feel a difference. If you do feel a difference, the problem isn’t the vagina and more likely that you have what the kids would call a “needle dick.”

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      9 months ago

      I’m sorry. Are you suggesting that vaginas all have the same feel? Because as a dude who’s had sex with more than a handful of women, I can assure you that they are all unique. Not saying I could pick out my partner’s out of a blind line up, but to say they are all the same is just bad anatomy.

      And some certainly do “feel” looser. Which is more than likely a direct relation to the arousal than anything being “big”, or something about the kegels. I dunno, I’m not a doctor.

      • circuitfarmer@lemmy.world
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        9 months ago

        I think the argument is that vaginas are not a single size. The same vagina can be different sizes based on a variety of factors. Thus even that same vagina can have a different feel to a male during intercourse based on those factors.

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      9 months ago

      So your theory is all vaginas are one size, and it’s only the penises that vary? Right. Why are you being upvoted? Also, OP said nothing at all about bad women’s anatomy or any reasoning for sizes. Put away your jump to conclusions mat.

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      9 months ago

      It’s bad women’s anatomy to say that some women are looser but you say childbirth and consistent use of toys will make them looser?

      This is not an insult because the sex was good but I dated a girl who was notably “looser” than the others. Yes, I did notice the difference and no, my dick didn’t shrink when we started dating. She only used vibrators and never gave birth. I think she just naturally had a wider vaginal canal.

      But like I said, it was still enjoyable. Might even say I preferred it.

      I think there’s way too much emphasis on genital size for both sexes. You’d have to be on the extreme end of sizes for it to be a problem

      • Bell@lemmy.worldOP
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        9 months ago

        Same story. Dated a wonderful girl who was noticeably larger in that one department. I’ve also been with some who were noticably smaller. Both situations can cause problems.

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      9 months ago

      I thought I saw a study or some mri images that showed that every vagina is shaped differently. If that’s the case, yeah every single one should be unique and would have a different feel, and there would also be muscle strength difference too.

      Who are the ones arguing with bad anatomy with this new information? I’m pretty sure it was just last year, so why do we constantly spread this misinformation that they can’t be different? Shits wild.

    • DM_me_ur_upskirt@lemmynsfw.com
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      9 months ago

      I think I have the opposite problem. When I’m fully erect my dick gets quite thick, so unless I make my girl extremely horny, it kind of hurts for a few minutes when I get in there