• weedazz@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    My problem is perfectionism/anxiety/procrastination loop. “oh I gotta write a good reply to this text” --> "fuck I can’t think of the right words, that’s making me anxious -> “I’ll do it later when I can do it properly and I won’t be anxious” -> 2 weeks later -> “fuck why am I so bad at this”

  • SolarNialamide@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I once forgot to respond to a friend for 5 months, lmao. Luckily he knows me well enough to know I sometimes forget and I was kind of going through a personal crisis, so a ‘hey man kinda forgot to respond for 5 months, how are you’ was enough to make it all right again