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sbf@feddit.orgto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Maybe Trump's Presidency Will Make Everything So Awful It Will Facilitate Actual Positive Change Nationwide9·2 months agoThings have to get real bad before people realize they need to get better. I’m hoping that happens here
sbf@feddit.orgOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I'm starting to resent my long-distance girlfriendEnglish1·2 months agoAgreed, but the legal process will allow us to close the distance while I serve in the military instead of having to wait 4 years.
sbf@feddit.orgOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I'm starting to resent my long-distance girlfriendEnglish2·2 months agoAh, I should’ve clarified:
We’re both aware of the issues we’ve been having and both agree that closing the distance could very well fix them. So, we said we could marry only legally (as in go to a courthouse and do it that way) purely as a measure to do so while I serve. If we find out everything’s fine in that time, we can have an actual ceremony with family and vows and all that good stuff. If not, we get it annulled like it never happened
sbf@feddit.orgOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I'm starting to resent my long-distance girlfriendEnglish3·2 months ago(Great writing for a rant that you didn’t proof-read. I especially like the LaTeX-like emdashes.)
Thanks, lol. I use them a lot
But if you decide she’s The One for you and she feels the same about you, then stay the course and maybe attempt to make your relationship more permanent (marriage) which might solve some of the problems (or make them worse if you’re not both committed to it)
I was thinking I would tough it out until we see one another in July — that’s just two and a half months away from now. If we still hit it off together in person after so long apart, I might stay, but if it’s awkward and/or we’re still having problems, I might leave. I just need to remain disciplined and moral with my friends — especially the one I know is interested in me — until then.
Edit: We’ve talked about getting married for the sole purpose of being able to live together while I serve. In my mind, if that doesn’t work out, a divorce isn’t the worst thing in the world, especially since we obviously won’t have kids or joint ownership of any assets.
sbf@feddit.orgOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I'm starting to resent my long-distance girlfriendEnglish4·2 months agoTrust me, I’ve tried the whole “fucking around and having fun” thing. It’s definitely not for me; I much prefer a long-term partner over a situationship that lasts for a week or two.
sbf@feddit.orgto AnarchyChess@sopuli.xyz•Congratulations, Sopuli! You are now part of the interplatform Anarchy Chess game. Top comment picks the next move.1·2 months agoDoesn’t matter. Sacrilege…
sbf@feddit.orgto AnarchyChess@sopuli.xyz•Congratulations, Sopuli! You are now part of the interplatform Anarchy Chess game. Top comment picks the next move.2·2 months agoBishop F1 takes on H3. Zombies are sacrilege
sbf@feddit.orgto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•The inconsistent naming for insert row/columns in the German MS OfficeEnglish6·3 months agoLibreOffice for the win
sbf@feddit.orgto Worldbuilding@lemmy.world•Alien Biospheres: A Spec-Evo Worldbuilding Series by BiblaridionEnglish1·3 months agoFantastic series. Also check out Artifiexian’s channel; he’s the guy he collabbed with in the first video
Not once have I encountered one. I don’t mind them, though
sbf@feddit.orgtoData is Beautiful@lemmy.world•Sweden's porn preferences vs radiation received from Chernobyl (not serious)English3·3 months agoCould it be that there are a lot of VPN hosts in the hentai regions and worldwide preferences are effecting the stats? Some VPN services I have used in the past have had Swedish servers around there
sbf@feddit.orgto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's the scariest experience you've ever had?43·3 months agoDuring Helene, I had a tree fall through my house while I was in bed, and it stopped about 6 inches from my face
I fully agree, lol. I browse ich_iel with reading glasses and a dictionary
I’m learning German, too! I took 3 years in school and wanted to continue my education on my own. So far, it’s… going
sbf@feddit.orgto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•My kids don’t like to watch cartoons or movie explicitly made for kids. What are some good movies targeted toward adults that kids can watch?3·3 months agoRemember the Titans. Absolute cinema
sbf@feddit.orgto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•My kids don’t like to watch cartoons or movie explicitly made for kids. What are some good movies targeted toward adults that kids can watch?4·3 months agoHUGE second on all of these
sbf@feddit.orgto [Migrated, see pinned post] Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•*Permanently Deleted*English4·3 months agoAll of my interests are niche, so this SHOULD happen to me all the time. The thing is, I have about 40,000,000 of them, so I usually get inspired to work on something else when I get bored
sbf@feddit.orgto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•My ravioli bowl won't unstick. Took about an hour of prying, and still I couldn't unstick the plate.English2·3 months agoIt had it coming
sbf@feddit.orgto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•My ravioli bowl won't unstick. Took about an hour of prying, and still I couldn't unstick the plate.English8·3 months agoNope. It has to come straight from the starfish
Thank you for the opportunity to read it!
My father is also a road cyclist, so I didn’t grow up on mountain/hybrid bikes like most other children do; road bikes are pretty much all I know. I’d love to dip into other disciplines, but I don’t want to spend a bunch of money on a bike and then find out I don’t like it. However, I do fully agree with your point about road bikes being restrictive; I often have to take longer, much busier routes around my town when I could just take one of the many trails that go all throughout it. I don’t plan on doing any sort of technical trails, but I’d still like to have the ability to do the most basic of off-roading.
The thing is, I don’t really care about the number on my bike computer/watch’s speedometer. I just want to feel fast; I want to feel the wind, the rattle of the bike against the road, the momentum shift as I lean into a corner. That’s what I enjoy. From what I’m reading, you seem to get that very same thing! Perhaps gravel bikes aren’t too bad after all ;)