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  • i can’t speak for all vulva’d people, but… i feel like that’s mostly a porn thing.

    the amount of times i licked my hand before masturbating: once, to see if it was good. it wasn’t (and i find it kind of gross. no offense to ppl who are into it tho). and i masturbate a lot

    pre-transition, getting it wet wasn’t even that hard. why would i use spit for that lmao. i mean some people might have that issue, right, but i’d still rather just use lube if that were the case

    i think it’s just supposed to be hot for whatever reason



  • so my answer to this is pretty layered bc i’m a trans guy and the sensation for both has changed since starting testosterone

    pre-transition, i liked anal but it was a lot of trouble for the reward and vaginal was super easy / pleasurable all the time (i was lucky and can orgasm from vaginal penetration, it used to be how i preferred to get off)

    post-transition, anal is still a ton of work to prep for (esp given i consistently have gut issues)… but it’s a WAY more pleasurable experience. i tend to re-discover it maybe twice a year. i’m not exactly sure what’s caused it to become so much more intense (seriously, i get super shaky and wobbly nowadays), maybe testosterone made the nerves grow there more? i dunno

    but also, post transition, vaginal is a lot more difficult (dry / sensitive) and i have to work pretty hard on getting warm enough to enjoy myself. i really have to be in the mood and have a lot of time on my hands and… well, sometimes it’s hard to come by










  • i’ve generally concluded that, if a game is gonna have sex, i want it to be explicit about it (e.g. hentai games vs bioware games); for example in baldur’s gate 3 it always feels a little weird because it’s more about intimacy so it’s always followed by a cut to black before the action happens

    a lot of hentai games straddle a weird line of their own though, because they often have their most titillating scenes around gameplay (so you’re focused on gameplay and not titillation); it’s preferable to have the sexy parts separate from gameplay, but that has its own weird disconnect

    the only game i felt like did this well is orc massage (you can find it on steam); it has gameplay but no time pressure; it also rolls foreplay into it (because you’re an orc… massaging various sexy girls); it does a nice job of allowing you to get plenty aroused before you see the action and can get to action yourself (which is a sort of usual thrusting / set the tempo / cum when you hit the button kind of a deal)

    i don’t know if you can generalize a genre from it, but i hope more devs try to