Can’t catch a break

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Cake day: October 12th, 2023

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  • I like live rosin sativa edibles. I would take like 5mg or even less depending on your sensitivity.

    I would also sometimes take live rosin sativa edibles mixed with a little CBD. Also 5mg or less. Supposedly the CBD “evens out” the effect a little bit.

    I live in a state where we don’t have legal weed (in USA), so I would get the federally legal stuff. Very expensive to get something with proper contaminant testing. I would get Hometown Hero brand if I needed to get federally legal stuff. There are more brands that are good too, but it’s been a while since I’ve purchased those.

    Visiting a legal state, I found was these things called “potdots.” They are basically M&M’s 1mg of THC each. Start with around 2 or 3. I really liked how easy it was to take very small doses.



  • I’ve found that folks with beliefs that aren’t respectable, like believing that minorities don’t deserve rights, tend to need to be reminded to respect other people’s beliefs. Many times those beliefs hurt no one, like belief in astrology.

    So they just weaponize and twist the lessons they were given to silence others so they can continue harming others.





  • My block list has I think 7 people on it. I only block if someone makes my Lemmy experience worse any time I see something from them. Disagreement I am fine with. It’s healthy to see other viewpoints, even if I don’t agree. (Or if it’s an issue of morality, like not viewing minorities as people, a grim reminder that people think like that. Fortunately by the time I see those, someone else has replied on the matter.) Being inflammatory and adding no value to any discussions is what gets you blocked for me. I know I have blocked several spammers, but it appears that their accounts got deleted.

    I have blocked many communities though. It’s mostly porn. Furry porn, not for me. Anime porn where the subjects look too young… Just don’t want to see that. Porn that just isn’t my taste. I would just block NSFW but there is some NSFW that isn’t necessarily porn that I want to see. (Ex: frank discussions about anatomy)The stuff that isn’t porn is just communities that are inflammatory echo chambers.

    I browse all because I don’t have many subscriptions that are active, so that is why I have so many communities blocked.






  • It seems people like seeing a villain somewhere. Good vs bad is convenient. Shades and nuance aren’t easy. (I get it. I stopped talking about my struggles caring for my disabled partner. I’m not a bad person for being tired and wanting a little support. She’s not a bad person for having needs she cannot fulfill without extra help. No one is wrong, situation just sucks.)

    I’m sorry I don’t have an answer for you, but you are seen. It is indeed exhausting to have to justify all the time especially when you need support.





  • In America, the older folks tend to have more money than the younger folks. So culturally speaking, we don’t really think to send money to our elders.

    The first way is pensions used to be common, so older folks get that. There are also retirement accounts that people would pay into their whole working life. (These are very commonly offered and are pretty set and forget.) Cost of living used to be a lot lower too, so they also had greater opportunity to save up as they aged.

    Another way is that established people tend not to have to spend as much money. If you live in your own house and have for a while, your home goods are typically handled and you only need to replenish as needed. (I’m talking things like furniture, small fixtures… Stuff that would be a pain to move or replace if you are not as established.)

    Also in the United States, current working age people pay into social security, which older folks can draw from. (There are rules and exceptions, but for the most part, this is how it works.)

    So here, the older folks are in a better financial position overall. (There are of course exceptions, and with their advanced age it is harder to dig themselves out.

    For myself, I am doing well. But even though I’m ahead of many of my peers, I’m still not doing as well as my parents when they were my age. The cost of my schooling was much higher than that of someone that graduated 30, 20, even 10 years before me. (But it did allow me to get a very good job.) The cost of living rose quite a bit higher than wages, so I wasn’t able to save and invest like they did. I’ve had to take on second jobs to pay for healthcare. (My parents did not have to.)

    I might be a bit biased though, because I was also told I would get no financial help from my parents after I became an adult. I would be far more inclined to help if they invested in my education, which would have made me be way more far ahead financially.

    However, I do help my mom when I can. I visit. I help her fix things. I don’t help her financially though.